how to talk to a girl and what are turnoffs

[Seiter_12]

iam a gamer so i like playing games and building my own computers and stuff and iam like the smartest in most of my classes (i dont like rub it in or tell everyone about it) so really is this a turn off to girls especially if this girl i like is sporty

also what are some turn ons/offs

and how do u talk to a girl like start a conversation with them and what u talk about

and i am kinda shy

[Desuetude]

Find out about things she likes, sports would be a good one to start with because she is into them. Be confident and say it straight out but dont act to cocky. Being smart, I wouldnt have thought it is. Most girls don't want some air head boyfriend that doesn't really care about his grades so I think that might be in your favour.

[Golden Terror]

Find out about things she likes, sports would be a good one to start with because she is into them. Be confident and say it straight out but dont act to cocky. Being smart, I wouldnt have thought it is. Most girls don't want some air head boyfriend that doesn't really care about his grades so I think that might be in your favour.

i think she's right

[Jordan1234]

From what I know, Girls like confident males, smart, with much self-esteem, and they do not care about looks. The turn offs are : if you are being too annoying about talking only for you, ask girls questions about themselves more. They like to talk and experience more. I hope this will help you.