my mom is so weird!!

[katerinadancerina13]

my mom is really weird cuz once when i lifted my arm, she saw the underarm hair and like, she went crazy and saying aaaw, and stuff like that, and then the other time was when i was changing my underpants and she saw my pubic hair and she was like really surprised and made a big deal out of it...PLEASE HELP!
i so dont know what to do...what will happen when i have my period she is gonna make such a fuss i dont want that! :help:

[MoveAlong]

I think you should tell her you don't like that and tell her to leave you alone.

Usually if you really mean it and have a lot of modesty, your parents will leave you alone about it. When my mom (only parent) noticed I had underarm hair, she made a big deal about it. So then I told her something like "mom, that's really embarrassing and I don't want you to talk about my body at all, it's really embarrassing and could you please stop not do it anymore?"

I got kinda mad lol, but if you just tell yor parents that you don't like it, they'll probably respect that.

[Maddi]

I was in this same situation! Thank God my mom grew out of it.
Well, parents are always talking about their little kids growing up. Especially moms with their daughters. They want to keep them small forever, and, when they start to develop they feel like they're losing their "baby". Well basically, it's just her way of reacting to you changing and growing up. It'll take some time for her to get used to it, but it will end eventually. She will eventually accept the fact that you're growing up. Trust me though, you're not alone.

[stridegum91]

i would connfront her and say mom im embarassed when you do that(if thats the case) and please stop it.
it worked for me when i started to get underarm hair. (im a guy though)

[JoshDude]

Most mothers go through this sort of thing. Seeing their children grow up and all. But just tell her you would rather her not do it because you don't like it. She should be fine with that.

[Lifesreject]

My mum was really wierd with me at first as well but i just said mum can we not b like this and she was ok. had to tell my mum when i started my periods about 3 months ago and she seemed more botheredby it than i was. she kept askin me if i was ok and had changed my pads and i was like yes i no. So in the end i just said mum i dont want to make a big deal out of it. It happens all your life so can we just leave it because i dont want you calling me up when im like 30 or something asking if im ok and how my periods going. Shes cooled off abit now but still sometimes askes me i just say am fine and then walk away.

I hope this was some :help:

[cry4eva]

my mom did that to but only wen i started to shave! lol just tell her that u dont like that n u think its weird. she'll probably say sumthin like" oh honey we have the same things but mine is bigger" or "i saw everything wen u where a baby" she'll soon just stop being annoying

[Glasgow]

My mom used to be like "OMG YOU HAVE ARMPIT HAIR!?!?!??!?!!??!?!?!" but now i go shirtless round the house and i dont care if she sees it, but i never talk about my pubic hair with her. (By the way im a guy:P)

[Elscire]

your mom just wants you to know that it should be best to start shaving, i mean its very awkward to see a girl with hairy pits like my girl friends at school and stuff

[0=]

Well some people don't really care, but it is considered proper for girls to shave their armpits and legs in America.

[A.J.]

just tell her she needs to respect your privacy

[Cap'nCrunch]

mkay, I'm a guy. Were I in your situation, I'd just say "Mom. You don't have to act like that" or "It's not a big deal" next time she reacts oddly. It would probably cause her to explain why she was doing that in the first place.

[Ambrosia]

Please don't bump old threads! :locked: