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theUnprofessional
March 6th, 2012, 03:36 AM
I haven't 'experimented' with someone yet, so i was wondering how old is too old to experiment?

kaiba
March 6th, 2012, 05:49 AM
I think up until after college tbh, everyone knows that everyone experiments at college so you'll be fine

Nick.The.Quiet.Guy
March 6th, 2012, 06:26 AM
I thought this was a question about how old was to old for the guy you are going to experiment with... haha and I don't know, I think everyone will have there own opinions, I personally feel that once you start getting to 16/17 its not so much experimenting but you may actually be gay (or bi) but I also realise some people start puberty later. I don't know, I think its a matter of personal opinion and I am sure some will disagree with me

CoolGuyXD
March 6th, 2012, 08:41 AM
I think it depends. I would say after college is when guys stop experimenting. So I would say mid 20s. But if you have a person and you both don't care how old you are then thats okay I think.

audiophile5
March 6th, 2012, 10:00 AM
I thought this was a question about how old was to old for the guy you are going to experiment with... haha and I don't know, I think everyone will have there own opinions, I personally feel that once you start getting to 16/17 its not so much experimenting but you may actually be gay (or bi) but I also realise some people start puberty later. I don't know, I think its a matter of personal opinion and I am sure some will disagree with me

I agree with you. I think that up to 16-17 is just for fun, then you become more mature and search for a relationship..


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CryWolf
March 6th, 2012, 10:41 AM
Hmmm. I don't know that there would be an age that you stop experimenting. If its a new thing then I don't guess it matters how old you are.

NomSan
March 6th, 2012, 11:07 AM
I don't really think you can be too old to do that stuff, although when you're 20+ it might not be experimenting, unless you have never tried anything with the same sex before though.

BoredGuy26
March 6th, 2012, 11:09 AM
I don't know, but I think it depends if you've experimented before or not.
But if two of you aren't serious about it and just doing it to lark around and have fun I don't see the problem..

Fresh2Death
March 6th, 2012, 11:13 AM
I agree with boredguy, As long as you guys aren't developing feelings fir each other and you guys are just doing it because your friends and having fun, then there's no real problem. Its friends with benefits in a way. But I think it should stop or tone down when you get in a serious relationship with a girl or get married to a girl.

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March 6th, 2012, 11:39 AM
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senior.2013
March 6th, 2012, 03:29 PM
About toward the end of puberty. I would say youre good in your teen years, but I wouldnt go any older than 19. After that it it may be bisexuality.

Giles
March 6th, 2012, 07:31 PM
It's entirely personal opinion. There's people that are middle aged (and older, probably) that still want to experiment with people. Just look at the personal sections on CraigsList and you'll see what I mean.

prob1996
March 6th, 2012, 07:41 PM
I agree with most of the above posts. I don't think there is any real age where it's too old to experiment. It becomes a matter of personal opinion.
If you are asking how old is too old for u to experiment with, then I would say no older than 16 since ur 14.

muddygrand
March 6th, 2012, 08:46 PM
I think up until your last year in collage really.

Neptune
March 6th, 2012, 09:20 PM
After the first or second time you do it. If you continue to do it, you aren't experimenting.

AHSboy
March 6th, 2012, 10:30 PM
I would say 18. Puberty should be close to finishing by then. If not, 20 at the most. By then, you should know what you are and it should no longer be experimenting.

ImCoolBeans
March 6th, 2012, 10:35 PM
I would say 18. Puberty should be close to finishing by then. If not, 20 at the most. By then, you should know what you are and it should no longer be experimenting.

I actually couldn't disagree more. Sexuality is a very confusing grey area where you are totally on your own to figure out for yourself. Let's say you're 19 or 20 and you've had uncertain emotions throughout your life; you begin experiment with same sex and it doesn't turn into anything, you find out that you are not interested in that sex/gender. That's perfectly fine and acceptable. Let's say the same thing happens at 25 or 26, who is to say that isn't okay, or that it shouldn't happen. You can choose your sexuality or desires, so I believe that experimentation shouldn't end at a certain "set age". You'll know when the time is right.

legitt
March 7th, 2012, 10:12 PM
I dont think there is a age limit hahah

GirlLover15
March 7th, 2012, 10:43 PM
no age imit

NephilimAzrael
March 19th, 2012, 12:14 PM
College, so if ur not there yet and u still wanna experiment, u will still get ur chance ;)

daverave
March 19th, 2012, 01:09 PM
Well I personally would like to experiment with guys my age. Anyone over, say, 21 is creepy to me

Thunduhbuhlt
March 19th, 2012, 01:18 PM
Anyone within 2 years or so, I think. Other than that, it might be weird or illegal. Usually you want to stay in your own range of age.

Infidelitas
March 19th, 2012, 03:43 PM
At the moment, my limit is 2 years older than me, and only 1 year younger than me. Any older than that, it's just weird. When I turn 18, it probably would be restricted to same age, and two years older, due to the fact it's illegal to have sex with anyone under 18 when you're an adult (here).

pickelweasel131
March 24th, 2012, 12:19 AM
i experimented with my cousin when i was 13 that's how i found out i was gay

Joey2198
March 24th, 2012, 03:05 AM
its ok as long as you both are ok with it