View Full Version : A friend of mine...
Taylor95
March 5th, 2012, 08:47 PM
So I,ve been friends with this guy since first grade ( we're 16 now ), we're really good friends.
I'm straight and I've had a girlfriend ( and so has he ).
We've been going to each other's houses to watch movies the past few years, and most of thjpe time there were other people ( our friends ) .
A few months ago it was just me and him. we were watching the movie, buy
t it was kinda boring and we weren't all that intrested.
So we didn't know what to so, he said we should wrestle. I said no at first, I thought it was kinda stupid, but after a while I said what the hell and we started wrestling. Everything was cool at first, but after awhile he started putting his hand down my pants and
was feeling me up.
It was kinda weird. Not in a goos way or a bad way. And whenever he's alone with me now, he wants to wrestle. I got used to it, but from time to time it's still weird.
I'm still straight ( maybe just the slightest bit curious ) and I think he is too, but I don't know what to think about this.
Shojld I say anything?
muddygrand
March 5th, 2012, 08:56 PM
You can if you want. Just kind of go with the flow though, who knows where it could possibly take y'all
Dimitri
March 5th, 2012, 08:59 PM
First off bud you need to let him know how you feel about this, let him know that it makes you feel weird and that you both need to sit down and talk about this. Yes, for the most part experimentation is normal but him forcing himself on you the first time and then constantly wanting to wrestle, you need to talk to him.
Say "hey bud, we need to chat..." if he is really your friend then he should respect your space and your decisions/choices.
Stryker125
March 5th, 2012, 08:59 PM
If you're okay with it, there's really no problem with it. Sounds like normal raging teenage hormones. If it makes you uncomfortable you should talk to him about it
senior.2013
March 5th, 2012, 09:03 PM
Do whatever youre both comfortable with. Just ease into whatever you do. Its normal to do during your teen years.
ImCoolBeans
March 5th, 2012, 09:05 PM
You need to tell him if it is making you uncomfortable or it's putting you in an awkward situation. You don't have to let him do this to you if you aren't okay with it. If you don't like it then you should say something sooner than later to avoiding an awkward confrontation down the line when he goes too far.
Taylor95
March 5th, 2012, 09:08 PM
Actually. I can't really say if I like it or not. :P
It all kinda depends ln my mood.
In my post above I sajd I might be A little bit curious. Let me explain : I get horny ( sometimes even hard ;) ) when I see guys wearing boxer - briefs. He wears them lol. :P
Sometimes I get kinda horny when we wrestle.
But sometimes I don't like it.
So, I still have no idea what to do. lol
Xaylon95
March 5th, 2012, 09:19 PM
It's just his hormones. If you're best friend, just tell him if it make you uncomfortable.
ImCoolBeans
March 5th, 2012, 09:20 PM
Actually. I can't really say if I like it or not. :P
It all kinda depends ln my mood.
In my post above I sajd I might be A little bit curious. Let me explain : I get horny ( sometimes even hard ;) ) when I see guys wearing boxer - briefs. He wears them lol. :P
Sometimes I get kinda horny when we wrestle.
But sometimes I don't like it.
So, I still have no idea what to do. lol
Well with that being said I think you should just play it by ear. If something does happen that you are uncomfortable with let him know.
DanielD210
March 5th, 2012, 09:21 PM
Im with everyone else If it feels wierd then talk about it. Still talk to him about it though! =)
Tonebone88
March 6th, 2012, 12:16 AM
I just think you should talk about it. Ask him why he feels you up and he will probably say he's curious. You can just tell him that although you dont always dislike it, you would prefer if he didn't touch you there. Maybe tell him that if you ever really want to take things farther and experiment, you'll tell him.
Virtual Guy
March 6th, 2012, 04:50 PM
As long as you don't have a problem with it, don't worry about it
vBulletin® v3.8.9, Copyright ©2000-2021, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.