is it just me?

[josh cassano]

is it just me or do all or most girls your nice to all the time to and chat with asume that you just want to be friends when you just want make sure they think you are a nice guy and you get to know them a little bit before you decide if you want to ask them out. because on multiply occasions i have gotten to know the girl first but then i ask her out and she says like but we are friends or some thing amd ive tried not doing this and just asking her out but they say well i dontt really know u. girls why do you asume this because i rarely do become friends with a girl because i just want to be friends

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty 101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

That happens a lot, it's not just you. Getting stuck in the friend-zone is rough and it's nearly impossible to break out of. If you want to date a girl, make it clear that you're interested in her somewhat early on so she doesn't misinterpret and start to build a friend-only type of relationship with you.

[MJohn]

I know it sucks, I've been hiding this feeling for a girl. I'm too nice that it just friends but i became her best friend. I fell in love and didn't go the way it planned just friends. There's this new guy from another school and started hitting on her, she liked it. What I did. Depressed. Started avoiding her. Just want to forget it. Now she's all over me chasing me through hallways saying she misses me and stuff but I just don't care anymore :|. It really sucks.

I'm bitter now about it. My life changed cause I've been with her for 5 years as friends. It's just me, I'm wrong but better to be happy other than forcing to something that will never happen.

[josh cassano]

damn man thats deep