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beebs
March 5th, 2012, 08:16 PM
I need to know if something im doing is wrong.

Theres this girl, lets call her Chloe, and i have not met her, but shes a friend of my bestfriend.

I dont know if you guys no what tumblr is, but there is a feature where you can talk to other tumblr people anonymously. Chloe linked me to her tumblr to show me it. And i made a tumblr, no one new it was mine.

I noticed Chloe was showing suicidal signs on her tumblr, although she didnt know i was able to see it anymore. I started speaking to her anonymously.

She reaveled she was starving herself and self-harming. So we started texting and we are trying to quit self-harming together, and im helping her eat again.

She says she loves having the support, and thinks she would be cutting alot more if it was not for me.

So the problem is, is it wrong for me to do this in order to help her stop harming herself? I know its breaking the trust, because she didnt really want me to know any of this, but now that I do i feel like i should help her.
She is really helping me.

Is this okay to do? Im not horrible am i?

Desuetude
March 6th, 2012, 06:19 AM
No of course your not horrible. You are trying to do a good thing and although it might not have been the best way to go about it you can't take that back now.

You are helping her though and she is helping you and that's what you both need, someone to rely on and pick you up if you make a mistake.

You have two options here. You could tell her it's you and hope that she forgives your lying and she carries on trusting you and you both help each other to get better or two you keep her in the dark and just carry on as it is. If you are planning to meet up and you want to become closer friends or you actually want her to be part of your life not the made.up you then I suggest you go for one. the proven with two is that you can't expect anything long term because she is more likely to find out who you.are.
If you are thinking of telling her then I say go for it sooner rather than later because the more time you put between it the closer you will get and the more it might hurt her.
You are doing a good thing though, you both need this help and support. It's just the unfortunate situation you're in.

madea rocks
March 8th, 2012, 04:27 PM
Some times people need help whether they want it known or not....so you are doing the right thing and i would tell her but ask for forgiveness for lying too