finding someone gay

[lxl]

yeah um im not fully public about me being gay and all but i dunno how you find others who are gay
maybe like in the school or something

[MoveAlong]

Some say their MySpace, but usually there is no way to find out for sure. Even if you ask someone, it doesn't mean they're going to be truthful to you.

I don't see any way : /

[Ironic Infidel In England]

I'm out at school... (not through choice) and sometimes guys who are gay/bi/curious and not out come to me to ask for advice... hence I know almost all the non-straight boys in my school.

[MoveAlong]

I plan to come out when I'm in 11th grade at 16, two years from now. I wonder how that'll go over :D
So I think I'll know some gay people...the best thing I can do now is know accept all people. Once I'm out, I think the gay people I know will go up, but then how people view me might go down...

[lxl]

I'm out at school... (not through choice) and sometimes guys who are gay/bi/curious and not out come to me to ask for advice... hence I know almost all the non-straight boys in my school.

hmm how did you get others attention like that?

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Well, the guy who I came out to first turned out to be a homophobe.. and told everyone.. and I'm like one of only two out guys at my school, the other one is a bible basher who reckons all non-straights should be celibate.. so I'm really the only choice, lol.

[mattyboy28]

oh god, could i sure use a guy... but i dont want to come out, so now all i get is being randomly touched by the guys, like accidently hitting my arm i like and thats the most action ive had :P . i really wanna know how to score a guy

[Φρανκομβριτ]

a question that plauges all us gays.... you just gotta be careful and hint subtly

[Everglow]

One of the gay guys at school that had a thing for me ended up asking a mutual girl friend of ours to ask me if I am gay. When she asked me I told her 'no,' as I'm bi, but I left it at that. However, I did ask her why she wanted to know, and she said that one of the gay guys thinks I'm attractive and want's to get with me. I ended up finding out who asked her, but the guy is not really my type, so it died.

I'd suggest that if you want to find a gay guy, that you, if you're comfortable, ask a girl to ask the guy of interest for you. It's virtually harmless and if the guy isn't interested, sure it'll be a downer, but you avoided embarassment and the possiblity of getting beat down.