Ugh...

[Electra Heart]

So, basically, my girlfriend and I were talking about how slow we want to take our relationship. As dumb as it may seem, I really don't care. She could only hold hands with me for the first year (I'm exaggerating but y'know), she could jump on me in 2 weeks and go wild. I don't have a preference, I'm a testosterone filled sack of libido, what does she expect? She responded promptly by calling me a "shallow dickhead" and that I'd probably just go around "fucking everything that breathes." This question is mainly aimed towards girls because, I have NO idea what the fuck I did wrong. She just stopped talking to me for a few hours, ignores my emails and such. So, can you please tell me what I did wrong (if I did anything wrong), and/or help me to resolve it? Thanks.

[Ambrosia]

You need to pause and consider what you're going to say to a girl before you actually say it. It sounds like you probably didn't say this to her in the correct tone of voice. All she probably heard was the last part, and you surely didn't word it correctly.

Apologize to her, and tell her you two can go as slow as she wants to, it's all up to her because you respect her. That's all girls really want when it comes down to it. For you to respect our boundaries and what we want.

[BassSwagg]

Well, some girls feel like you will leave them if they dont have sex with you but they may not want to take that step yet so its a conflict of interest, they wanna make you happy but dont wanna go past there personal limits so instead they get defensive. Just tell her your sorry and will wait as long as she wants if you really wanna be with her. if you just wanna get some then move on i guess cause she obviously doesnt wanna give it up :) good luck kid :)

[botwa]

oh believe me she's just as messed up as you are. you both are under the influence of rebelling hormones so if you want to get together now you just need to be as patient as you can and as caring as you ever ever can. even pretend sometimes you care. it's better to prevent this bluff than try to clear things out after your girlfriend becomes pissed off.