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xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 01:06 PM
Theres a boy in the year ahead off me in school that i like. His names Jamie. Ive liked him for awhile now and im confused about if he likes me or not. A friend of mine asked him if he thought i was cute and if he liked me and she said Jamie said yes to both. About a month ago he stoped talking to me. We were never to close but we talked alittle and annoyed each other (in a good way) In the corrider i sometimes see him looking at me and the he turns away. Im really confused about if he likes me or not. :( I need some advice.
DejaVu
March 4th, 2012, 01:19 PM
Maybe he's just embarassed to look at you? This could be a sign that he likes you but he's nervous to do anything about it. If I were you I would confront him about it and ask if he feels anything for you.
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 01:35 PM
Should i just ask him? Or should i try talk to him before i ask? Hes always with a fairly big group of friends and im afraid of makin a fool of myself :(
DejaVu
March 4th, 2012, 01:46 PM
If I were you I would just ask him. If he's always with friends try and tell him online/via SMS, do you have his FB? If not, then just go up to him when he's with his friends and ask tell him to come with you for a moment.
MeltedCrayon
March 4th, 2012, 01:46 PM
ask him when hes with the group of friends. ask if you can talk to him privately for a moment. then make ur move.. just tell him how u feel
Desuetude
March 4th, 2012, 01:46 PM
I think maybe try to get to know him before you ask him out. Like DejaVu said he was probably just embarrsed and nervous. If he likes you he will want to get to know you better.
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 01:52 PM
Thanks everyone for the advice. I was afraid to keep talking to my friends about it incase they got fed up. This is really helpful. Sorry for rambling :)
Stryker125
March 4th, 2012, 01:56 PM
Seems like he might like you, but is a bit shy. Maybe you should make the first move and talk to him? If he has a cell phone you could get his number and you guys could text or something
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 02:40 PM
Yeah thats a good idea but id be nervous asking for his number
DejaVu
March 4th, 2012, 03:09 PM
Do you have him on Facebook or any other social network?
TeddyBearRock
March 4th, 2012, 03:14 PM
The reason could be that he knows that you know what he said about you, and could be embarressd about it, I think that you should just go over to him and talk about the thing he said about you then if he likes you then ask him out.
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 03:24 PM
Yeah im friends with him on facebook.
See i found out by mistake that my friend asked him. Another girl i no was there when he was asked but let it slip. I asked him about it but he said he remembered talking to them but not anything about me. Does that make sence?
DejaVu
March 4th, 2012, 04:01 PM
So he's saying that he doesn't remember saying he likes you? He sounds like he likes you but doesn't have the balls to make a move, I would confront him and ask him if he feels anything towards you. After all, what's the worst that can happen? Him saying no?
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 04:13 PM
Yeah my friends swear blind he said he liked me but he just kept saying he dosnt remember.
Oh and i dont no wether my comment went to your page proper. :)
DejaVu
March 4th, 2012, 04:41 PM
Yeah it did, its just mods need to approve it before it shows up :)
Go ahead and ask him! You're going to regret not having asked him earlier :)
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 05:00 PM
Yeah ur right ill just casually slip it into a conversation haha :)
DejaVu
March 4th, 2012, 05:06 PM
Tell us how it goes :) Best of luck!
BassSwagg
March 4th, 2012, 05:08 PM
Yeah ur right ill just casually slip it into a conversation haha :)
JUst be yourself and be casul, if he likes you, good, if he doesnt, his loss :)
xxx.xxx
March 4th, 2012, 05:30 PM
Thanks thats sweet of u to say :)
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 01:22 PM
Did you tell him in the end?
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 01:39 PM
No were not on great terms at the moment so im not sure if im gomna say anythin
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 01:48 PM
Aww what happened?
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 02:08 PM
Like me and my friend were in the corridor and jamie walked behind me and pulled me hair and ran past me. Like we were messing about and this girl we both no came over pushed me away and started laughing at me (i think she was laughin at me) and me and jamie havent spoken since
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 02:22 PM
Wow sounds pretty childish on his part to pull your hair, did he do it jokingly or to hurt you?
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 02:43 PM
oh it was only like a joke we used to always do that to each other
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 02:57 PM
How come you don't talk any more then? Or did he do something else?
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 03:19 PM
im not sure really he looks at me but dosnt talk but i dnt either i suppose
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 03:33 PM
If he doesn't make the step then you should, it's better to find out his feelings and get it over with rather than get all worked up about it :)
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 03:48 PM
ah but u shud no by no im horrible at understanding boys
oh has ur leg gone asleep yet? haha :P
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 03:53 PM
Well you know if you need any help with that you can ask me :P No, not today, it did yesterday for like 2 hours though :P
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 04:04 PM
u no ill prob take u up on that :) haha thats cause u jinxed me last week id laugh if the next time were on chat it happens :P
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 04:10 PM
It probably will :P Come on chat later tonight!
xxx.xxx
March 15th, 2012, 04:19 PM
maybe i will maybe i wont ;) hehe im bored so i prob will we use alota smileys :D
DejaVu
March 15th, 2012, 04:34 PM
We do :P Getting back on topic, have you tried getting one of your mutual friends to ask him if he likes you? Or do you not have mutual friends?
xxx.xxx
March 17th, 2012, 03:52 PM
no i dont think i will hes not like he used to be...
TeddyBearRock
March 17th, 2012, 03:59 PM
when he looks at you then turns away, it means he was staring at you ( in a love way)
and turnd away so you dont see him looking at you. or thats why i would do it
xxx.xxx
March 17th, 2012, 04:12 PM
I would say it to him but hes ment to like another girl and it would be real awkward
DejaVu
March 17th, 2012, 04:24 PM
How do you know that he likes another girl?
xxx.xxx
March 17th, 2012, 04:31 PM
He was saying on facebook that if enough people likes his status hell ask this girl out
DejaVu
March 17th, 2012, 04:45 PM
Did he say "this girl out" (it could be you) or did he actually mention someone else?
xxx.xxx
March 17th, 2012, 04:52 PM
he said the name in the status :/
DejaVu
March 17th, 2012, 05:02 PM
I reckon he's joking; by putting the name in the status he's already stating that he likes her, thus making asking her out directly useless.
xxx.xxx
March 17th, 2012, 05:11 PM
he dosnt show any proper signs or liking me i now find it stupid to like him...
DejaVu
March 17th, 2012, 05:36 PM
You should stop worrying about it and get it over with; ask him directly and clear your doubts once and for all!
xxx.xxx
March 18th, 2012, 04:53 PM
Yeah but if it dosnt work out ill feel horrible
xxx.xxx
March 18th, 2012, 05:42 PM
sorry if i sound like a snotty cow...
Jmihas
March 19th, 2012, 01:21 PM
Like the others, be romantic and ask the darey question.
ClayzWorld
March 19th, 2012, 02:42 PM
Coming from a guys pov i say just pick a random time and just go up and hug him he will be speechless and start smiling to you across the class. I f he really likes you he will start trying to be with you every second of the day.
xxx.xxx
March 19th, 2012, 04:35 PM
Yeah thanks hoping that'll do something good atleast. no one can say i didnt try right?
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