Family and girlfreinds!

[XxAssasiNxX]

Ok recently ive been getin so pissed off. Ever since i turend abou 10 my family always wants to know who i like and if you have a girlfreind. I never tell her anytjing.
See the reason for this is evertime i see family there allways like; u got a girlfreind dylan whats her name or; how your girlfreind going is she comin tonight? And sometimes it gets prety personal. Seriosly if u put the word girl in any sentence there like OH YOUR GIRLFREIND! Like i told them the girl i liked a couple of yeras ago and they still cant get it out of their heads. And ive been tellin mum about year 7 and shes like like anywone yet? I have given her hints to who i like. But what should i do its gettin really out of hand recentlly especidly since i turned 13. And now i just say yeh shes good and stuff and go with the flow but its gettin supper anoying now!

[Mortal Coil]

Chill out, please.
Families do that. My parents tease my brother mercilessly about who he likes and it's because you're a teenager. I'm sure if you just tell them that it's getting on your nerves then they'll try to stop it, but you also have to understand that they're just joking, and take it a little lighter!

[XxAssasiNxX]

Chill out, please.
Families do that. My parents tease my brother mercilessly about who he likes and it's because you're a teenager. I'm sure if you just tell them that it's getting on your nerves then they'll try to stop it, but you also have to understand that they're just joking, and take it a little lighter!

Yeh but sometimes they get really personal and my entirenfamily does this!

[Desuetude]

Yeh but sometimes they get really personal and my entirenfamily does this!

Yup we all go through the same thing. Just don't take it personally they're just trying to get into your private life if you don't want them to know anything then don't tell them.

[botwa]

well they are your parents and they care about you. just be honest with them and talk in a calm way, be as mature as possible so they see that you're a grown-up person (although you're obviously not, 13 is not the age when you can judge things clearly)

[LuckyLuke]

Calm yourself. All families do that, you're 13. If this is the only "problem" you're facing, count yourself lucky.

[TeddyBearRock]

I hate that I'm in the same position, if I get seen texting a girl, my mum thinks I'm out with her and won't let it go

[Skeptical Bear]

It happens to me at 17. They just don't suffocate me about. Just play along and tell them you're not ready for that crap.

[iallen]

i hate it to but just be like not at the moment or say arent i to young something like that

[Lyra Heartstrings]

Just ask them to lay off with it. They'll understand.

[XxAssasiNxX]

Wow i posted this like a month ago howd this pop up on the first page again lol