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BradyW97
March 4th, 2012, 01:22 AM
Ok I have a girlfriend and I really truly love her. But my ec just asked if I wanted to go out abd she says bot to tell my GF and my ex says she will do anything. I don't know what to do. Please help I don't want to hurt either of them

Short Circuit
March 4th, 2012, 04:26 AM
She is your ex for a reason, just remember what that reason was. She obviously does not like the fact that you have moved on and not wasting your life away thinking of her!

Move on, she is trying to put a wedge between you and your new girlfriend.

Desuetude
March 4th, 2012, 04:48 AM
She is your ex for a reason, just remember what that reason was. She obviously does not like the fact that you have moved on and not wasting your life away thinking of her!

Move on, she is trying to put a wedge between you and your new girlfriend.

This is all there is to it. Stick with your present girlfriend your ex is probably just trying to cause trouble because she doesn't want things to work out between you.

BassSwagg
March 4th, 2012, 05:17 AM
I agree, us women can be bitches and i think shes just trying to drive a wedge between you and your girl, we can be very persuasive but its usualy not worth it

Roninrv
March 4th, 2012, 05:23 AM
Ok I have a girlfriend and I really truly love her. But my ec just asked if I wanted to go out abd she says bot to tell my GF and my ex says she will do anything. I don't know what to do. Please help I don't want to hurt either of them

You already answered your own problem. You stated you truly love her, so then be with her. Tell your ex to grow up and she had her chance. One day you will have to learn either the easy or hard way that you cant appease everyone. Someone is always hurt, its best to do minimal damage then try to apease both and end up really hurting both of them in the end.

BradyW97
March 4th, 2012, 05:49 AM
Just told my ex that I'm sticking wid my girlfriend yay me

BassSwagg
March 4th, 2012, 05:52 AM
Hooray for talking crustaions, jk sorry had a flash back moment, but good for you :)

Desuetude
March 4th, 2012, 05:56 AM
Just told my ex that I'm sticking wid my girlfriend yay me

Good for you! Don't let her come between you

botwa
March 5th, 2012, 06:13 AM
it's a right decision to be with your present gf. sometimes only the innocent interest could kill the relationships.