View Full Version : What should I do?!
Clevdawg
March 4th, 2012, 01:14 AM
Hello I'm new. I got a small problem now because tomorrow I have my first date with my new gf. I met her once about 3 weeks ago and have texted and talked nonstop. But I kind of fear I might not immediately recognize her and embarres myself, we are seeing a movie with another couple. Second she brought up about us kissing and I told her that Ive never made out before. Was that the right move, she said she was fine with it, and how can I not embarass myself in the chance I dont recognize her?
P.s. I really feel as tho I "love" her and her me
madea rocks
March 4th, 2012, 06:09 PM
In the chance u dont recognize her she will probably recognize you and attract ur attention. And as for your other question it is always the best to be honest in a relationship, so yeah that was the right move
Desuetude
March 4th, 2012, 06:17 PM
Like said above she will probably recognise you im sure you have nothing to worry about if you have met her before. You are probably just getting yourself worked up over nothing. With the kissing that's also good to get out now, be honest with her and im sure she'd appreciate it.
Ambrosia
March 4th, 2012, 08:28 PM
When you're waiting for her to show up, will she be coming with the other couple, or will you be with them? Chances are that they will recognize her, so if you are with them they will alert that she is coming. If they are with her, you will see them. Either way, if neither of those are possible, simply direct your attention elsewhere so you don't appear to be looking for her and make a fool of yourself by looking directly past her. If you feel confident enough, ask her for a picture of herself so you can "have something to look at" when you miss her.
As for kissing, just go with it. If you think too much into it it will be very difficult for you. If you simply go with the flow, then all will work out well.
Good luck! :)
Clevdawg
March 4th, 2012, 11:26 PM
Ok it went pretty well and we went to the mall instead. I recognized her and had a great time. Buut, my luck, she texted earlier tonight that she wasn't ready for a relationship and wants to focus on school and sports. She said I was perfect and we can try again another time. She said she still loved me and said i was perfect. Now was she honest? For the time we were together we loved each other. Was this just an exeus or cam she be honest in saying that? Laddies what do u think too, since you understand women better
Clevdawg
March 5th, 2012, 11:16 PM
I also don't understand the change just before it, we were so close and she was very into me as it seemed. Also what could've caused this in addition to my above question??!
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