Don't know what to do

[Michigan48111]

I don't know what to do. I have come to realize over the past couple months that I am gay more than bi.

I have a huge crush / attraction to a guy who is older than me. I am 15 and he already graduated college and is in his mid 20s. He is all I think about when I go to bed a night and I don't know what I should do. Our families have been friends for years so we have known each other a long time.

I know he would get in trouble if we did anything, even if I said I consented. I don't know what I should do. :confused:

[madea rocks]

Do not do anything that will get you in trouble my advice is to forget about him

[Ambrosia]

Push the feelings out, no matter how hard it may seem. You have to realize, relationships like that are bad and will cause nothing more than problems for the both of you. The sooner you realize that the sooner you will be able to get over those feelings.

Good luck! :)

[BassSwagg]

Well theres no law against hanging out and whatnot, just dont do anything with him until your 18. My boyfriend thingy is 24 and im 15, we just don't have sex. Good luck. :)

[Tonebone88]

This is a rather tricky situation. Even though it seems like there is no way, you'll find a way to get over it. I know it stinks, but there are multiple reasons why this will never work out for you. The biggest reason is that it's illegal for anything to happen between you two. But even when you do turn 18, he will still be around 10 years older than you.

Just take some time and try to forget about him. It will take a lot of effort, but you will feel better about it later. I know what it's like... I was very infatuated with my best friend for a while. I finally realized that he is as straight as they come and started to get over him. It's taken months for everything to be completely right again, especially because I see him all the time. But I eventually managed to get over him. We're in a musical together and I had a bit of a waver in my resolve when I saw him in only his boxers when he was changing costumes. However, I've been strong enough to resist the temptations and move on to more realistic fantasies, even when I say him and his beautiful body everyday. It will be hard, but you can do it!

[botwa]

just. forget it. forget it. for your own sake.

[SimSailorNick]

Why don't you try telling him how you feel? Unless you can live with the possible regret that may come with not telling him, then forget about it.

[Mortal Coil]

Hon, I went through a very similar thing, I fell in love with a much older guy. Even though I don't particularly regret being with him now, the amount of pain it has brought me is monumental. Like you said, he would get in trouble with the law and your families and the law if you guys did anything, so I wouldn't suggest that you push your feelings away so much as get through them, like you've gotten through your other crushes in the past.

[Jdawg91]

There is nothing stopping you from fulfilling your desires,how ever it could go south very quickly if he wasn't cool with your ideas. Pursue what you want to do in life other than letting people tell you what to do or what is right.