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nick2014
March 3rd, 2012, 11:07 AM
ok so one day i experimented with a guy...and today one of my close friends (not the same guy) wants to experiment tonight because hes alittle curious (so am i)...and i was wondering that if we experiment tonight would it really be experimenting for me since ive already done it once? would it mean that i would be bisexual? :confused::confused::confused:

spoke
March 3rd, 2012, 11:37 AM
i would call it experimenting since its only your second time. and it doesn't mean you're bi, it maens you're curious

confusedboy
March 3rd, 2012, 12:17 PM
Agreed with Spoke, it's your second time and your still (key word) curious.

Just be safe and don't push each other too far. Stay comfortable.

Abyssal Echo
March 3rd, 2012, 01:27 PM
Agreed with Spoke, it's your second time and your still (key word) curious.

Just be safe and don't push each other too far. Stay comfortable.

I agree with confusedboy ur just curious

Stronger
March 3rd, 2012, 01:31 PM
I wouldn't say Bi-sexual, just curious, which is normal, just takes things slow and don't rush, don't something wrong could ruin the friendship and if either or becomes unconfortable be sure to say something

Tonebone88
March 3rd, 2012, 06:14 PM
Experimenting twice doesnt make you bi. It just means you're not sure about your sexuality and that's normal for teenage guys.

SourceRed
March 3rd, 2012, 07:02 PM
Its still experimenting

samb12
March 3rd, 2012, 07:47 PM
i think it is still experamenting cause u havent said u have a sexual attraction to both boys and girls

senior.2013
March 3rd, 2012, 08:40 PM
You may be bi. You're still in your puberty years though, so youre probably still curious. Its best to call it at the end of puberty, around 18-20.

karejeet
March 8th, 2012, 04:40 PM
still experimenting, dont worry about it!

GirlLover15
March 8th, 2012, 10:37 PM
your both curious so noo

confused65
March 10th, 2012, 11:30 AM
its not really experimenting for you and no you arnt bi youre just curious

Evan-9
March 10th, 2012, 06:12 PM
Experiment all you want. theres nothing wrong with it.

ExhibitG
March 10th, 2012, 07:57 PM
i don't think "experimenting" is the right word because you already did it so it isn't an experiment anymore, but i don't think bisexual is the right word either because doing it twice obviously doesn't make you bi. i'd just say that you enjoy sexual pleasure, hahah, so does everyone else. so you're fine.

and even if you do eventually deem yourself bi, just remember there isn't anything wrong with that.

BelieberBoy95
March 10th, 2012, 09:13 PM
So what if you're bi?! It's not like you're damaged! Geez! You freaking like boys too! ¬¬

Jakeh97
March 11th, 2012, 01:30 AM
It depends on what your doing and if you really like it.

Have Fun :)

Ducky
March 11th, 2012, 02:01 AM
Won't any sexual pleasure be likable?

MJohn
March 11th, 2012, 02:22 AM
I don't think so,you already experienced it so... now that you're up for it then.. You might be bi.

Slosh
March 11th, 2012, 03:55 AM
I still consider that experimenting. It's not really like you're doing it too often.

BoyTeen1997
March 11th, 2012, 03:52 PM
I would say it would still be experimenting bc you arnt doing it with the same guy

Kidd
March 15th, 2012, 06:16 PM
Experimenting I'm 16 and idk what I am. Let me know how it goes!

NephilimAzrael
March 18th, 2012, 03:11 PM
if u still just wanna be curios and experiment, then it won't be anything more than that =)

nick2014
March 21st, 2012, 10:47 AM
Well wr never dod anything we weree both scared & decided to wait...plus je said he loves jis gf to much thats another reason

Ben_E
April 7th, 2012, 12:46 PM
You said it was a "close friend" so i call it fun with friends. Not being BI or Experimenting, just plain and simple fun with a friend. Nothing wrong with that at all.

smd11451
April 7th, 2012, 01:40 PM
I agree, just because you enjoy the experience or want to enjoy the feeling doesn't make you bi. Everyone experiments and is curious at some point, I'd recommend just seeing how things play out.

OregonStateDude
April 7th, 2012, 04:59 PM
I would say it would still be experimenting bc you aren't doing it with the same guy

This is true. And it all depends on what you guys do. If it's just hand jobs, then it's experimenting. If you take it to the next level, well then...................

UTurn
April 7th, 2012, 06:20 PM
Your considered bi curious I believe. You like girls and would like to be in a relationship with them but find guys physically attractive. I think this describes me as well.

VirtualGuy012
April 7th, 2012, 07:14 PM
i think you are both just curious. So no.

PerpetualMotionSquad
April 10th, 2012, 07:06 PM
Just curious there ain't nuffin wrong with it I suppose

Coolboi
April 10th, 2012, 07:16 PM
puberty is not easy some times and it sounds like your just curious .
time will tell if you are st8 gay or bi .
there is nothing wrong with experimenting just be careful not to hurt your friendship .
have fun in your puberty .

Lifeguard
April 10th, 2012, 09:06 PM
no your only bi if u consider yourself bi

iwannago
April 10th, 2012, 11:38 PM
ohh gosh ur not bi, just experimenting, and even if u Re bi , it doesnt matter , just have fun be safe and dont RUSH things

Lego
April 11th, 2012, 12:30 AM
Just helpin a friend out with his curiosity. You're a good friend not bisexual. Brave for him to ask and kind of you to help I suppose.

leafgreenangel
April 11th, 2012, 12:39 AM
its still experimenting. also lots of straight people have circle jerk buddies and they aren't bi. sexuality has more to do with emotional attraction before sexual, i think. after a couple more times its not experimenting its will just be called jacking off with a friend

Thomas01
April 11th, 2012, 05:21 AM
If you are curious then it is experimenting.
If you want it then it is sex

Gravity_boy
April 15th, 2012, 02:26 PM
Agreed with Spoke, it's your second time and your still (key word) curious.

Just be safe and don't push each other too far. Stay comfortable.

Totally agree.

gromit
April 16th, 2012, 08:52 AM
it means your hormones are working

mostdeff
April 16th, 2012, 08:56 AM
you get to decide when u call yourself Bi or not