View Full Version : I ruined my friendship
KarkatLuv
March 3rd, 2012, 08:32 AM
my friends birthday is coming up and i told him i was gonna give him a present, i later teased him a bit and made him think i had told his love intrest that he liked them and he got mad, madder than i have ever seen him get, he usually hates it when people swear but they were comming out of his mouth faster than a train. I told him I hadn't and that the real present was a love story I'm writing between him and his love intrest and in the story i tell the love intrest that my friend likes them. now my friend hates me and i don't know what to do! How can i show him how completely sorry i am? :(
Mortal Coil
March 3rd, 2012, 08:50 AM
If you tell him honestly everything that happened, hopefully he can swallow his pride and accept that he was wrong and overreacted. He will calm down, and since you're 14, hopefully you guys are young enough to remember that happiness is more important than pride.
Good luck Tim!
Desuetude
March 3rd, 2012, 08:56 AM
No, I cant believe you did that. It's not your bussiness to go poking about. Just leave it next time, if you dont know what you're getting yourself into then just leave it.
I dont know what you can do to make him feel better, hes not up for forgiving anyone at the moment and i am just so angry. If you new how much he cared then you wouldnt have done it even as a joke in the first place.
I know this isnt what you want to hear but urgh, it really has broken him. He doesn't need me to tell you this and probably didnt want me to post but I just need to tell you how much it hurt him.
Dimentio
March 3rd, 2012, 09:55 AM
Timmy, To some i may have been over exagerating, But my life so far, My futures for life are all based on him, I need to do this on my own and you know how bad i need him and want to tell him, So no body mucks around like that, I sent you a PM so go check that but just next time, Do not mention him in a conversation like that, After all i have been through you saying you told him, It destroyed me and Nikki saw that all.
Stryker125
March 3rd, 2012, 10:31 AM
Sounds like quite the sticky situation... you should let him know how sorry you are. Write him a not, email, however you can get in touch with him, and spill your guts. Then let him know you still want to be friends. I guess all you can do after that is hope he forgives you
Breakeven
March 3rd, 2012, 11:43 AM
be honest about everything and say ur sorry and if he was really ur friend he will forgive u , no one is perfect , everyone make mistakes
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