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Jolies
March 2nd, 2012, 11:39 PM
Plz answer girls

Smeagol
March 3rd, 2012, 08:00 AM
Well, hun, it honestly depends on who you are with. If you love and trust your boyfriend, then fine. But the thing is, many people wait for marriage or do it when they are older/younger than 16, so it all depends on your judgement.

Desuetude
March 3rd, 2012, 08:03 AM
If you feel like you're ready then yes it is. It depends on you and if you feel you are mature enough and if you have found the right person. Don't let anyone influence your decision though, it is up to you and no one else.

BassSwagg
March 3rd, 2012, 08:09 AM
You only live once so LIVE IT UP! Like everyones saying, if you're ready. Losing your virginity is all about you and your guy so if you guys wanna do it and feel safe and comfortable then DO IT! but be carefull, i got pregnant at 13 and had a baby at 14, you don't wanna go there, trust me. Just use BC or condoms or something cause even tho JJs the best thing that ever happend to me, hes almost 2 and 1/2 and im almost 16 and my life is over having to stay home and watch him all day everyday so just be careful kay? :)
(//_^)

Mortal Coil
March 3rd, 2012, 08:15 AM
I might sound rude when I say this, but if you have to ask then probably not. It's entirely your decision, and relying on strangers on the internet to justify or accept your potential action.
No offense, I'm only trying to be honest.

sarahann95
March 3rd, 2012, 09:56 AM
I might sound rude when I say this, but if you have to ask then probably not. It's entirely your decision, and relying on strangers on the internet to justify or accept your potential action.
No offense, I'm only trying to be honest.

I agree with this. :/ If you have to ask, then odds are you aren't ready. You shouldn't rely on people's opinions on the internet.
As others have stated, it's your choice. When you feel right doing it, than maybe you are ready, but you have to deal with all the consequences (good and bad), as well. And honestly, there's always that chance that the person you are with now you won't be with in a couple months or years.
When you feel like you are willing to deal with the consequences and are mature enough, then go ahead. But, use some sort of protection, whether it's birth control or condoms.

Breakeven
March 3rd, 2012, 11:40 AM
there no good age , u lose it when ur in love and 100% sure u want to do it!

Abnormal
March 3rd, 2012, 07:58 PM
You tell me.

MJohn
March 3rd, 2012, 10:32 PM
No I lost it last year. I was 15 and still 15.

MJohn
March 3rd, 2012, 10:33 PM
there no good age , u lose it when ur in love and 100% sure u want to do it!

Who cares about love these days. Lol.

Roninrv
March 4th, 2012, 05:15 AM
Who cares about love these days. Lol.

You are being an idiot; not being rude, just stating a fact. You will be miserable thinking like that (even if you arnt now, in due time my friend you will be).
If its sex your only interested in cause it "feels good" then listen up; If you understood psycology you would understand that sex is much more intense and more satisfying if its with someone you love/deeply care about. The mind controls eveything, in case you forgot.

To the OP, there is no right age, its when your ready. Dont let anyone pressure you into having sex, or into not having it. If you find someone you really care about and want to share that with them then good for you. Dont just have sex to say you arnt a virgin, do it cause you care about ur partner and want to show your appreciation to them.

Sorry; i know im not a girl and shouldnt be posting in here. I just had to post because of the idiocy of society and what it (indirectly) teaches young men and women these days.

Chicka15
March 5th, 2012, 12:00 AM
When your readdy and your with a trusted guy

sarateen14
March 5th, 2012, 01:45 PM
yup...do it when your ready. But for me, I will hold it as long as i could. My bf tried to but i'm still manage to keep it and he respected me. I know he will try it again.

Sugarrush
March 8th, 2012, 01:19 AM
Do you feel ready?

Danielle's dreams
March 8th, 2012, 09:41 AM
I was 15 !! It was comfortable and as pleasant as could be expected !! I was personally ready and did it cos i wanted too and not through any presure ! My advice is be on top so u can take it at your pace !!!

Breakeven
March 14th, 2012, 04:33 PM
You are being an idiot; not being rude, just stating a fact. You will be miserable thinking like that (even if you arnt now, in due time my friend you will be).
If its sex your only interested in cause it "feels good" then listen up; If you understood psycology you would understand that sex is much more intense and more satisfying if its with someone you love/deeply care about. The mind controls eveything, in case you forgot.

To the OP, there is no right age, its when your ready. Dont let anyone pressure you into having sex, or into not having it. If you find someone you really care about and want to share that with them then good for you. Dont just have sex to say you arnt a virgin, do it cause you care about ur partner and want to show your appreciation to them.

Sorry; i know im not a girl and shouldnt be posting in here. I just had to post because of the idiocy of society and what it (indirectly) teaches young men and women these days.

^^ agreed

wildone016
March 25th, 2012, 08:53 AM
It can be, but varies on the person!

Weber_Swagg
March 26th, 2012, 06:16 PM
I think it depends on the person. I lost mine when I was 14 and didn't like it the first time but the second and the rest I loved it. I lost it early but I feel like it was a good choice :). if you feel your ready good luck:D