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Wooba
March 2nd, 2012, 05:11 PM
Alright, so i've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks now. Typically i'm not the kind of kid to be in a relationship, but me and this girl really hit it off, and had tons in common. anyways- all of sudden just talking to her is a bother. When we first started talking she wasn't like this at all, but now she's just wicked obnoxious and it irritates the hell out of me.

I don't know how to word it to her without being some what mean, so i've been biting my tongue. It's too the point where i'm just completely fed up with how she acts, even the smallest thing she does now just irritates me beyond belief.
I've tried talking to some of my guy friends about it, but they all say she's perfect. I don't know if they're saying that to support me or what.. i just don't know what to do anymore.

Do you think i should end the relationship? I hate how dating someone always changes your friendship.. i feel like if i wasn't dating her we'd be great friends. But i was a fool for asking her out. :/ i hate this. what should i do?

madea rocks
March 3rd, 2012, 07:24 PM
Do what you think is right and thats that if youre not gonna be happy then talk to her about it or break up

Desuetude
March 3rd, 2012, 07:29 PM
Don't be influenced by what your friends think, this is your decision. I say break up with her to be honest, there is no point in being in a relationship where the other person annoys the hell out of you but do what you think is right and don't beat yourself up about things you can't change.

Clevdawg
March 4th, 2012, 11:47 PM
A lot of times people ask others out on impulse and Do so for one feature. You two probably aren't meant for each other. And how does she feel about you same or different?

botwa
March 5th, 2012, 06:55 AM
just tell her that you think it's not going to work out and you want to be friends with her, tell her that you realized you're not ready for the serious relationships yet.

Mortal Coil
March 5th, 2012, 08:16 AM
Break up. It has to happen eventually, and it's kind of cruel to keep yourself chained to her and to keep deceiving her. As Nikki said, this is your decision, not your friends'.