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MJohn
March 2nd, 2012, 05:09 PM
I really wanna try out guys, but I don't even see one gay ! Or out that looks normal. Cuz there's this one gay guy at my school. That has like different colors on and dyed hair with different color. How do you find out? Without being gay.

Stronger
March 2nd, 2012, 05:14 PM
I'm a tad confuse, do you wanna find out if he is? But just b/c he dresses like so doesn't make him gay, just start talking to him, don't ask him right away but after a while once you know him, some how work in the question, but just be careful and don't scare him.

MJohn
March 2nd, 2012, 05:19 PM
I'm a tad confuse, do you wanna find out if he is? But just b/c he dresses like so doesn't make him gay, just start talking to him, don't ask him right away but after a while once you know him, some how work in the question, but just be careful and don't scare him.

Yeaaaa it does. No one is open here in this town -_-

CuriousDestruction
March 2nd, 2012, 09:58 PM
In my experience the best way to find out is to ask or have them tell you. There is no surefire way otherwise to really know. However, if your school or town has a LGBT club or GSA or something along those lines, you are going to be more likely to have someone tell you they are gay or bi at those places and events.

botwa
March 7th, 2012, 07:34 AM
the only way is to become close enough to ask. close enough to be sure that the answer will be truthful

farmer42296
March 7th, 2012, 07:37 AM
I know what you mean there is no bi guys at my school other than me.