Older Woman

[Fishes]

Ok so i'm a freshman and i've recently been talkin to this junior girl. I like her and we went to a dance a while back. Its not real serious yet. We havent even kisssed. But anyway, shes not a virgin and I was told by one of my older friends that it took him one day to get dirty pics out of her. That just kinda threw me off cause Im christain and I dont like loose girls. I wanna wait til Im married. So anyway, I heard from another friend that she might wanna go to prom with me. Sex usually comes after the dance and IDK what I'll do if she tries to pull a move. I still like her but I have no idea what to do if im in that situation. im sure any other normal guy would just go with it. But im sooooo lost. What should I do?:confused:

[Sebastian Michaelis]

Well, if she gives herself up that easily she probably just wants to be liked. Take her to prom, if you want, but if she offers sex or hints it tell her you're not that kind of guy even though she is beautiful. If you don't tell her it's not her fault and you don't compliment her she will think you don't like her at all. Trust me.

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating
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As for your post; if you want to go to prom with her, you can still go. Make sure that she is aware of your beliefs and she should respect them. If you're not comfortable with the situation then it might be best to cut the ties sooner than later because it could lead to some awkward situations in the near future, since you want something and it seems that she might want something else.

[christianteen]

I'm a Christian as well and I see where you're coming from. You just have to remember your morals and values. If she starts trying to have sex with you you just either have to try and explain that you're saving yourself or if it comes down to it run away from the sexual situation.

Also think about it. If you're a Christian do you really want to be with someone who gives dirty pictures of themselves to your friends?

Stick with it for as long as possible but don't go altering your morals for her. If that happens then she's influencing you in a very bad way.

[Quercus]

You only live once :P
Just sayin

[XxAssasiNxX]

Im Atheist because of these reasons and i dont really belive in religion and stuff. But anyway if shes sendin dirty pics of herseld thad kind of be a turnoff for me and shed be showing me shes quite wild. Well i do suppose u want a lil bit of a crazy girl who is funny and does other things but dirty pics just shows me tjat shes not comited to a relasionship. if she does offer sex after like querus said u only live once so make the most of it taker her to the prom and just turn down the offer or live a lil u only live once these are once in a lifetime opurtuniteis!