Fallen for my best friend!

[reecelyons]

Hey, I'm 16, and I'm gay. My and my best friend jerk off and watch porn together (straight), and once I leaned in for a kiss and he kissed back, and he was cool when I came out gay and everything, but he seems to be able to get all of the girls, but I have fallen for him massively! I don't know wether to say anything to him, or to just get on with life? I don't think he's gay, but the kiss makes me feel like he may be bi? I just don't want to ruin our friendship!

[Desuetude]

Well first of all you actually have to learn if he is Bi or not. Slip it into the conversation somewhere, it seems like you're pretty close so if you can just ask him straight out.
I mean if he says he's straight then don't do anything and move on, don't wait around for him because it's not worth it. You will just have to move on, if not then you know you might be in with a chance.
Like i said, just slip it in casually, he wont think anything of it and it wont ruin your friendship.

[Skeptical Bear]

Same thing happened to me. My best friend was curious though. Now he says he's straight. But your friend may be Bi or he could've just dipped in for the kiss just being curious. You should ask him your self and see where he stands. Better to know. Good luck and hope this helped.

[Short Circuit]

Just be carefull what you ask and say to him.

I too have a friends who is gay, we watch porn together, jerk off together, (not each other), and I have even played gay chicken with him, but that is as far as I would go. It came as a complete shock to me when he told me he loved me and wanted to go out with me, as he knows I only date females. I even ended up punching him on the nose for it, but we are cool again with each other.

[XxAssasiNxX]

Im straight but ill only say this
It depends how long youve know him do u really wanna ruin that freindship? Im jut guessing

[Stronger]

Hey, I'm 16, and I'm gay. My and my best friend jerk off and watch porn together (straight), and once I leaned in for a kiss and he kissed back, and he was cool when I came out gay and everything, but he seems to be able to get all of the girls, but I have fallen for him massively! I don't know wether to say anything to him, or to just get on with life? I don't think he's gay, but the kiss makes me feel like he may be bi? I just don't want to ruin our friendship!

I would defenitly some how ask him, like Nikki said, slip it into the convo, to me it seems like hes either Bi or Curious. If you ask him calmly and don't rush and you shouldn't ruin your friendship. I wish you luck with you situation :)


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[MJohn]

Be like, "wanna jack mine" or vice versa. Hahaha.