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User_Does Not Exist
March 1st, 2012, 01:48 AM
There's a girl at work I like, but the only time I can really talk to her is whenever her friend is around... and that makes it quite difficult to talk to her since her friend just stares me down and won't stop being nosy in the conversation. I don't understand why the girls always have to stick together and do this, then when they catch you without the one you like around they do the stupid 20questions game. "do you like her?????" "yall seem flirty" "are you sure you dont like her" "yall would be cute together" All that shit gets annoying especially because any wrong answer could be bad on your end. It's irritating, and since I don't really get to talk to her that much whenever she's around her friend she's always talking about stories and shit I guess boosting her self image? or she's actually telling the truth and she's far more than I want to handle.

In conclusion, girls need to stop being with their friends whenever a guy wants to talk to her!!!!!

Mortal Coil
March 1st, 2012, 04:07 AM
Well maybe if guys told us they wanted to talk to us, it would be slightly different. Also, girls hang out with their friends because they're friends, it's what they do. they talk and hang out to avoid boredom. This particular friend does seem annoying and nosy, but in conclusion, guys need to stop being too shy to talk in front of girls' friends!

User_Does Not Exist
March 1st, 2012, 08:30 AM
IM NOT SHY!!!! I'm more than outgoing with her and I'm willing to join her friend in the conversation but if I want to talk about something that has the slightest bit of like "I like you" message her friend is right there toast it awkward. It takes all the fun away if we say simply hey "I like you, let's talk and get to know one another".

botwa
March 2nd, 2012, 05:52 AM
you know some girls are just immature so they always have more girls around to feel confident, to be in the flock.
I don't know what to do. If I were you I would go straight to her even though she is with the company and ask if she can have a walk with you and only with you and then tell everything you want. and about those comments of other girls... just don't pay attention. be confident. say only truth.
if they ask you whether you like a girl or not just say yes. it's true, right? and they will get it. of course they will tell the girl but I just don't know... it's so stupid. to be surrounded by the bunch of girls all the time...

User_Does Not Exist
March 2nd, 2012, 03:26 PM
I'm thinking about giving up idk she is 21 and im 18.... so we're kinda far apart in my viewpoint. Tonight I think she's working and I have to get dressed up for a fancy dinner so hopefully I can look fly with my suit and tie :p see if she can get a glimpse :D

XxAssasiNxX
March 2nd, 2012, 05:05 PM
Yeh this sorta thing happens to me at school all the time
Basicly wat i do is me and my freind to things that attract them.they start laughing. But sometimes they split up. Do u have a freind at worlk to do this sorta thing? If not just try to attract the crowd .