I can't find my type of guy.

[Portable Desert]

I'm into the kind of gays you can't tell are gay, you know? but it's hard for me to find even one guy that I like. I don't know if i'm too picky or something, but I feel like i'll never find one :L Are there any places to go to meet other gay teens? This sucks, tbh :what:

[Jdawg91]

Its difficult trying to find those types,seeing as it would just cancel each out. Perhaps you could try online sites in relation to your location.

[CuriousDestruction]

There are online forums like this one only geared toward LGBT youth but no dating websites simply due to legal liability. Online matchmaking websites require you to be 18 or older. And the forums generally have really strict rules about not soliciting sex from other forum members.

As for finding the kind of gay that doesn't meet the gay stereotypes, i know the feeling. And sadly I don't have a great answer. But just go to the GSA or those kind of organizations and their meetings and keep an ear open for anyone who might not be straight.

[Dimitri]

Hun, I know what you mean, it is hard but I found mine and I know you will find yours. I actually met him at school, through a good friend of my own, we have been together for a little over month now....

H eis gay and I am bi, to be honest he is more straight than I am....

[confusedboy]

I'm in the same boat as you. It's extremely difficult.

Things should get a lot better for you when you turn 18. Go to gay clubs and I'm sure they'll all be there ;) haha (I'll let you know... I turn 18 next month :D!!) Hang in there!

[thecanjump]

I'm there too. I thought I found my "straight" gay match but it turns out to just be someone really comfortable with their sexuality who was leading me on to see how far I would go... It's no fun feeling like you are the needle in a hay stack but trust me you'll eventually find a guy.

And to add with what confusedboy said once you hit 18 (especially once you get to college) it should be easier

[muddygrand]

Sometimes it just takes a while to find someone who is right for you. Give it time, and it will happen

[decaffe]

its notalways about getting a bf i used to think the same trust me i fit ur bill but having a bf is way tomuch trouble wen u least expect it he will show up

[Levi scott]

Same way and its depressing :(

[Lights]

I think it's shallow to say you only like gay guys who don't match the stereotype. Why? Because you never know who you're going to fall in love with. I used to think on the same lines as you, and to some extent I still do, but I think the key thing is to be open minded because if you automatically shut off people who are remotely like the stereotype, you could effectively be shutting yourself off from someone really great who you'd actually get along with really well.

A point to note, however, is that there are loads of gay guys who don't fit the stereotype of loving Broadway, clothes and glitter - so don't be put off in thinking you won't ever find a guy who's not all effeminate and in your face. I really think the best advice is just to keep an open mind when meeting new guys. :)
As you go to new places like college/university, you're absolutely bound to meet gay guys. I haven't met any myself yet, but I'm optimistic for later this year when I'm going to sixth-form college.

[wattado]

im the same i hate it but the person we are looking for is out there somewhere :) sometimes its worth the wait

[JoshD]

Yeah flamers kind of annoy me...Sorry...

And gay guys that constantly talk about them being gay, and if you say something to them that could be twisted into being homophobic they will do it. Do you say that because I'm gay? No, I say that because I'm wondering....

Stfu, no one cares that you're gay. We all know. Now stop talking about it.


Yeah anyways, 'straight' acting gay guys are so much hotter.

[Cicero]

I fond Vegas very extreme, either you find gays who act very gay or you find people who are very against gays. My school is made up of probably 60% of Mormons lol. So you know what that means, but when you get 18+ try a dating website

[andrewrox13]

That must suck... there are plenty of guys like that in my area

[teen.jpg]

You really should be more open-minded, because chances are you may have skipped over someone who could've been "the one".

[JonasBe]

Yeah I know the feeling. I also prefer guys who you wouldn't notice straight away that they are gay of bi.

I found mine by pure coincidence on the internet on a Belgian youth social networking site.
And later found out he only lives 1 mile apart from me... Perfect...

One day you'll find your boy, trust me :)

[justin 13]

OMG dude I'm really desperate none of my friends are even curious. they are great, we do many boy stuff, xbox, soccer, fish, bike..but I cant even imagine trying to talk about being curious on sex. NO WAY. I need a BF so bad.

[justin 13]

This is great and SAFE PLACE to find one BTW.

[Faolan]

A lot of schools have GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) clubs, and many of the members would be LGBTQ students. Not sure if your school has this.

[photojared]

well just be open and try to find someone it will be hard but well worth it in the end good luck