What should I do?

[melia_allen]

Okay, so one of my previous ex's and I have been talking again. And we have realized that we still have strong feelings for each other. Now, y'all could be thinking,"Well, what is so wrong with that?" or something along those lines. Well, the problem is this, he wants me to pretty much wait for him and prove to him that I want him and he is putting me thru all of the stuff that I put him thru. So I am going thru the jealousy,because he is now dating my best friend, and I am also going thru the part of just being a friend no matter what. I am starting to think that he is just playing with my emotions, but I am not so sure. He is also wanting to change as in become more mature, and not be hyper at all. He is also wanting me to take risks and fight for him. He is also telling me that when we were together, he was the only one partaking in the relationship, and I have told him that my relationship eith him was my frist real realationship with any one and I didn't and still don't know what to do in one. *Sigh* I am sorry if I am rambling but I am kind of confused as to what he is wanting me to do, and what I should do. I mean he still calls me 'hun' and 'babe' and says ' i luv you'. I am so confused somebody help me out.

[Stronger]

Something doesn't seem right, I don't think he really wants to be with you at all, just trying to hurt(of course I could be wrong) but dating your best friend, making you be jealous. Honestly move on from him, I think he still seems immature, making you wait for him, even if he proves he still doesn't seem right, but wait and see what others say about this

[melia_allen]

Okay, thank you :) Also did I mention that two days ago he said he wasn't going to date anyone for a while and look at what he is doing....

[Stronger]

Okay, thank you :) Also did I mention that two days ago he said he wasn't going to date anyone for a while and look at what he is doing....

Oh wow, that proves hes just a jerk and immature, I'm sure you can find someone better than him, and also, your very welcome :)

[Borxar]

I'm sorry about this! Maybe its just because hes the first guy you've dated that you still kinda feel attached to that idea and sad that its over, but if he is going to use you and cause turmoil then perhaps he isnt the best guy for you. I know its hard, so I guess you could try talking to him and seeing if you can understand that you dont want to go through it that way and if he changes thats good, but if not im sorry :(

[melia_allen]

*Sigh* he is not the one guy that I have dated he is just the only guy I had a true relationship with..

[Borxar]

Oh I see, well still the same thing applies, He's real to you. Hopefully he can be real with his feelings too! :) But even if you cant work things out, its not the end, because you are sure to find real relationships! :)

[melia_allen]

lol I hope so. sigh well I am a hopeless wreck according to him.... gosh I wish he would be a little more positive towards me...