My straight step brother

[geocast]

I found a vibrator in my set brothers room while I was looking for a game. What do I do? Should I ask Him about it?

[Drummerboi9876]

Ask him if you want... i don't see how it could hurt...

[Auzzie 94]

If you're curious then asking him shouldn't do any harm... Let's say his name is Frank, I'd just casually walk up and in a laid back sort of chilled tone I would say "Fraaaaaaankieeeeee, had any ladies over lately?" and laugh.. and see what his reply is.. he might say that he hasn't had any girls over. If he says no then just say "Interesting, I found something belonging to a girl in your room when I was looking for games..." surely he'll ask what you found. Just say "A girl's vibrator..." see if he owns up to either owning it and using it on himself... or if he owns it to use with some of his 'female friends'. Maybe a female friend of his owns it and left it in his room or gave it to him to try turn him on or something. Who knows! The only way to find out is ask. If he says yeah to the question "had any ladies over lately?" then just say "Ah, explains the vibrator I found in your room while looking for a game haha", he'll probably just laugh with you. If he gets angry, explain it was an accident and you don't really mind and that he shouldn't feel uncomfortable.

[Diverperry]

just ask him about it nbd

[AHSboy]

It could belong to someone else. But if it is his, that's his business. You can ask if you want, but don't be a pest about it.

[ImCoolBeans]

Just leave it be, you're going to make a very awkward conversation and relationship.

[AppealToReason]

No, it's none of your business no matter how curious you may be.

[Stronger]

I agree with the two above, just leave it be, whats under his bed is his business, not yours. If you ask him, I'm sure he will be highly embarressed, and I'm sure the relationship will take a hurt.

[geocast]

But he never has girls over

It wasn't under his bed is was next to his games

Please don't double post, use the edit button to add something. ~TheMatrix

[Stronger]

So what? Not your business, just let him do wha he wants with it

[senior.2013]

As said. Leave it. Its his room, his stuff. If you confront him, you have a chance of making your relationship very awkward.

[muddygrand]

Just ask. What harm could it do?

[Stronger]

Just ask. What harm could it do?

What harm? Did you not read the posts, it can turn things very awkward, and even ruin their relationship, he should just leave it alone

[geocast]

But he leave it somewhere visible he knew I was gonna barrow a game from him.

[Sebastian Michaelis]

If I know siblings, and I do, then he wouldn't be happy about you being in his room in the first place. If you want to ask make sure you say something like, "Hey I know I shouldn't have been in your room, but I really wanted to play this game and I think I saw something I shouldn't have." If you come off as sorry for an honest mistake most people wont get upset or mad, but it'd be best to leave it be. If he knew you'd be borrowing the game then he may have wanted you to ask, or he may have just forgotten.

[AppealToReason]

But he leave it somewhere visible he knew I was gonna barrow a game from him.

So? I forget to put private things away sometimes. Doesn't mean I want you to know about them.
Seriously, leave it alone. Don't even care about his sexual life or sexuality.
It's.None.Of.Your.Business.

[geocast]

We always talk about his our sex lives but I didnt know about that.

[Stronger]

If I know siblings, and I do, then he wouldn't be happy about you being in his room in the first place. If you want to ask make sure you say something like, "Hey I know I shouldn't have been in your room, but I really wanted to play this game and I think I saw something I shouldn't have." If you come off as sorry for an honest mistake most people wont get upset or mad, but it'd be best to leave it be. If he knew you'd be borrowing the game then he may have wanted you to ask, or he may have just forgotten.

Perfect Answer right here ^^^

[geocast]

Anymore advice anyone

[loganbenson]

Depends on how close you are....if your close go for it but don't overreact....and if ur not close don't bother.

[ImCoolBeans]

If I know siblings, and I do, then he wouldn't be happy about you being in his room in the first place. If you want to ask make sure you say something like, "Hey I know I shouldn't have been in your room, but I really wanted to play this game and I think I saw something I shouldn't have." If you come off as sorry for an honest mistake most people wont get upset or mad, but it'd be best to leave it be. If he knew you'd be borrowing the game then he may have wanted you to ask, or he may have just forgotten.

Speaking from a bit of experience, I agree that he will be very unhappy that you were going through his things. My brothers would be really unhappy with it, and I'm sure that yours will not only be unhappy, but extremely embarrassed. This could potentially put a huge damper on your relationship with him.

[Abyssal Echo]

I found a vibrator in my set brothers room while I was looking for a game. What do I do? Should I ask Him about it?

u might want 2 approch him like I found one of ur toys while I was looking 4 a game and c where the coversation goes. some how I have my doubts that hes as str8 as hes telling u.

[spencer_S]

LEAVE IT ALONE! I can not stress this enough. It's none of your damn business, so don't make it yours.

[kaiba]

nah i think something you like that you should let slide, but if it's bothering you should ask him about it, but be cool ask curiously

[ConorM]

I'd just leave it. its none of your business really

[Daracon]

He could be upset that you invaded his privacy, he could be embarrassed that you found it turning your relationship very awkward. Its best you pretend you never saw it, its his business.

[lamboman43]

u might want 2 approch him like I found one of ur toys while I was looking 4 a game and c where the coversation goes. some how I have my doubts that hes as str8 as hes telling u.

I wouldn't make any predictions about the brother's sexuality just because he found a vibrator. It doesn't mean he likes guys. Maybe he likes anal play, maybe he doesn't even use it on himself. Definitely don't let on that you question his sexuality. That could really piss him off.

Whatever the case of why he has it, I think you should just let it go.

[Jake the Cake]

If you're curious then asking him shouldn't do any harm... Let's say his name is Frank, I'd just casually walk up and in a laid back sort of chilled tone I would say "Fraaaaaaankieeeeee, had any ladies over lately?" and laugh.. and see what his reply is.. he might say that he hasn't had any girls over. If he says no then just say "Interesting, I found something belonging to a girl in your room when I was looking for games..." surely he'll ask what you found. Just say "A girl's vibrator..." see if he owns up to either owning it and using it on himself... or if he owns it to use with some of his 'female friends'. Maybe a female friend of his owns it and left it in his room or gave it to him to try turn him on or something. Who knows! The only way to find out is ask. If he says yeah to the question "had any ladies over lately?" then just say "Ah, explains the vibrator I found in your room while looking for a game haha", he'll probably just laugh with you. If he gets angry, explain it was an accident and you don't really mind and that he shouldn't feel uncomfortable.
Do this and watch his facial and body expressions. Watch if he sweats, blushes, or gets red... Maybe even clammy, shaky, or starts to studder or make stuff up

[MJohn]

If you're cool with it then say it to him that you're cool about it! But if you're gonna make fun of it/him or make it awkward then don't even bother.

[jbi0hazardj]

if i left something embarrassing in a stupid spot and my friend or brother found it, i would want them to bring it up. 1 so i know i left something stupid somewhere stupid, 2 to know who saw it, 3 if no one said anything and i found it there then i would wonder and get nervous about someone seeing it. Right now i'm missing a gay porno, i have no idea where it is and it pisses me off cuz idk if i through it away to get rid of it cuz i knew i was going to be gone for a while or if i left it somewhere stupid. it has been bugging me really bad.

[MJohn]

if i left something embarrassing in a stupid spot and my friend or brother found it, i would want them to bring it up. 1 so i know i left something stupid somewhere stupid, 2 to know who saw it, 3 if no one said anything and i found it there then i would wonder and get nervous about someone seeing it. Right now i'm missing a gay porno, i have no idea where it is and it pisses me off cuz idk if i through it away to get rid of it cuz i knew i was going to be gone for a while or if i left it somewhere stupid. it has been bugging me really bad.

Same here ! I left a condom wrapper at my floor and went to work that day and my grandpa is sleeping in my room for a visit and I was at work! Don't know if he saw it! But I saw it the moment I came in. Scary and nerve racking.

[jbi0hazardj]

Same here ! I left a condom wrapper at my floor and went to work that day and my grandpa is sleeping in my room for a visit and I was at work! Don't know if he saw it! But I saw it the moment I came in. Scary and nerve racking.

exactly

[Xaylon95]

Wouldn't hurt I ask him about it.

[UnholyConfessions]

I think it is a no brainer that you don't ask anything. You were in his room, his own space. If someone was looking through my room I wouldn't expect them to come and question me if they found something. His room = His space. So you should just go about it like you've never seen anything.

[Rayquaza]

I'd say forget about it. Imagine if he found something embarrassing of yours. Surely you would not want to know he found it then finding out that he knows.

[Breakeven]

dont ask him , that would be freaky!

[Binatang]

If you want your relationship to stay the same, pretend it never happened! Ignore it, and act as if you never saw it. Don't mention it to him. If you really are curious, and want to ask, I'd say, yes it would be okay to ask, but you should know that it could potentially change the relationship between you guys.

[Patuxent78]

If I found it, I would just ask him if I could borrow it. That's a good way to break the ice with him.

[Thanatos]

Why does everyone assume the worst of others on this site? Always, everything is negative and focusing on the bad. Maybe he wanted you to find it, maybe he didn't. If you are close to your brother bring it up. If he's angry, let it go, and it might take a little but time heals. Who knows? Maybe he's looking for someone to open up to about it? Just because something could potentially read to awkwardness doesnt mean they should be ignored or bottled up, in fact that's the biggest issue in society today. Rather then talk about those uncomfortable topics, we hide them away and let them eat us up from inside out.

[lolwutsuperslide]

It really depends on how close you are. I'd just drop it though.

[Light Warrior 7]

Just leave it be, you're going to make a very awkward conversation and relationship.

Agreed :rolleyes:

[zach.tw97]

Every teen guy has something of that sort. It no big deal, ask if you want.

[dgski]

I think It'd be awkward, i wouldnt ask!

[AndCuriousGuy16]

I would only ask him if you both are open about sex and yourselves. If not, i wouldnt bother.

[jnhbgvbhgv21]

I wouldn't bring it up unless he does... could cause some problems

[leafgreenangel]

I would leave it alone if you guys werent really close. If you were and had a close relationship then ask. Whats your guys age difference

[transportphile]

throw it out m8 tell him to get a girl

[ImCoolBeans]

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