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Dimentio
February 28th, 2012, 08:06 AM
Well i do not need help personally, But my friends do, They do not know about VT and i suggested to them about finding a forum site and hinting about this one but nah, They was not bothered, But i have like 5-6 friends that do selfharm or have done and want to do it again, But it makes me so sad something must be in their life that makes them want to kill themselves and in such a bad way, The thought of doing what they do, I don't like it.
I can normally talk people out of this stuff but these ones are stubborn, So have you guys got any tips or ideas on what to say to them? I am at a loss now, I hate hearing about what they do! :(

FullyAlive
February 28th, 2012, 08:25 AM
Maybe your should look around for more information because you've already jumped to one of the most common assumed misconceptions. They self harm or want to so they must want to kill themselves you could well be wrong.
So my first suggestion is maybe educate yourself because saying stuff like this to them will only push them away.

Dimentio
February 28th, 2012, 08:58 AM
Sorry i saw how that came across wrong, Like some of them do want to end their lives, Not by cutting or stuff but some just want to, Sorry it came across wrong, But like i said i just want help and ideas to help them.

HandheldOutlaw
February 28th, 2012, 06:11 PM
Sometimes there's no convincing someone. The best thing you can do is try to get them help, and to just be a friend to them.
Whatever you decide, I hope things get better .<3