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Spence97
February 27th, 2012, 09:19 PM
So there's theres this girl... and I really like her, problem is im not sure if she likes me. She always says hi to me in the hallways ans smiles and laughs at me, but i still dont know. Any ideas for for me to help me find out, any other things we could really talk about? (not much of a conversation starter):rolleyes:
thanks
kenoloor
February 28th, 2012, 12:06 AM
Ask her.
Sordid Saint
February 28th, 2012, 12:23 AM
Ask her.

See, this is what makes no sense to me. What if you don't wanna make it awkward? Cuz I imagine if I were a girl that a guy asking if I like him would be pretty awkward.
kenoloor
February 28th, 2012, 02:06 AM
See, this is what makes no sense to me. What if you don't wanna make it awkward? Cuz I imagine if I were a girl that a guy asking if I like him would be pretty awkward.

Then don't be immature about it.
Sordid Saint
February 28th, 2012, 02:09 AM
Then don't be immature about it.

If you knew me, you would know that I am NOT immature. I just don't want to embarrass someone and put them on the spot.
kenoloor
February 28th, 2012, 02:14 AM
If you knew me, you would know that I am NOT immature. I just don't want to embarrass someone and put them on the spot.

If asking someone if they like you is embarrassing/awkward/whatever then you clearly aren't comfortable around them, and therefore should not date them.
Sordid Saint
February 28th, 2012, 02:25 AM
it's embarrassing for THEM. You are putting someone on the spot. If they say no, they're gonna let you down, but if they say yes and they really don't, then they're lieing to you. So it really only works out if they do like you.
botwa
February 28th, 2012, 03:54 AM
well try to hang out with her more. I think it's a great way to know. you will surely see this way
kenoloor
February 28th, 2012, 09:25 AM
it's embarrassing for THEM. You are putting someone on the spot. If they say no, they're gonna let you down, but if they say yes and they really don't, then they're lieing to you. So it really only works out if they do like you.

It goes both ways; I'm saying that if either party is uncomfortable talking to the other about this, then they probably aren't comfortable enough with each other to have a legitimate, healthy relationship.
Clawhammer
February 28th, 2012, 10:20 AM
Flirt with her. Maybe ask her. What's the matter, afraid to blush for a bit? If so, you aren't ready for it.
Breakeven
February 28th, 2012, 11:59 AM
ask her what she likes to do for fun and whats her fav stuff , her fav subjects , color , random stuff