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Antagonist
February 27th, 2012, 08:19 PM
So Ive liked this guy for like... 8 months. I have NO idea what sexual orientation he is. But. Since Friday of last week, we've been looking at each other alot. We've been catching each others glances. Every time he talks/touches a guy, his cheeks turn rosey red.

I truly like him. A lot. Its the type of like where fantasizing isnt present. Its more than lust.

One friend says I should ask him out. But. If I do, what if hes straight? He'd say ni, tell everyone, anf I would be the social outcast among all of my advanced classes. Its... nerve racking.

Advice please.
Tonebone88
February 27th, 2012, 08:27 PM
I would say the first step would be getting to know him better. Start talking to him and maybe you can find out if he's interested in guys at all. From what you said, it seems like he's trying to hide that he's gay but you can't be sure. Once hetells you his sexuality you can tell him yours a d see where things lead.
Jupiter
February 27th, 2012, 08:30 PM
yes, but make sure you take it slow. you don't want to rush things along.
Stronger
February 27th, 2012, 08:37 PM
Talk to him, build up a relationship, get to know what he sees in a person, and if its guys he likes, ask him out but as Eric said don't rush or else that could derail things
Nellerin
February 27th, 2012, 08:38 PM
Find out more about him, if he is gay then a mutual friends might know and you could find out. Then just introduce yourself and get to know him, before asking him out.
Antagonist
February 27th, 2012, 08:45 PM
He knows Im bi. He was one of the first peple to jnow (thanks to a gossipy friend). Andhe knew at one point that I liked him. He didnt react. Matter if fact, when my friend said "Tripp some one likes you" his automatic response was "Noah?"
Im just gonna wait, and watch...
Nellerin
February 27th, 2012, 08:52 PM
Waiting is always good, things will turn out right most of the time.
botwa
February 28th, 2012, 03:58 AM
first try to be friends with him. I think that's the hmm compulsory stage of every relationship. before the sexual part.
Abyssal Echo
February 28th, 2012, 05:42 PM
Talk to him, build up a relationship, get to know what he sees in a person, and if its guys he likes, ask him out but as Eric said don't rush or else that could derail things

I couldn't agree more.
Drummerboi9876
February 28th, 2012, 08:30 PM
definitely don't rush! and when he guessed that you like him.. thats a good sign!!
Antagonist
February 28th, 2012, 08:54 PM
definitely don't rush! and when he guessed that you like him.. thats a good sign!!

Ikr!

Thanks you guys :3
Spike7
February 28th, 2012, 08:56 PM
Get to know the guy and see what goes nextz?