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DarkNick
February 27th, 2012, 02:52 PM
I just hate moments like this...
So we were hanging out to one of my friends house talking to someone in omegle.As we were talking the stranger pointed out that I look very straight.
I responded and then one of my friends said oh Nick you should add that guy, he's the first person you meet that finds out that you're straight from the first sight.
I answered by asking her what did she mean. She didn't respond (probably didn't even listen to me since we were in a party mode).
But who was I trying to fool? me or her?
For so many years in school everyone was making fun of me calling me a fag or gay,pussy and all these.... (probably 'cause of how my voice used to be odd and 'cause of a gay friend that I have) (I still hear comments like these every now and then)What the fuck do they know about me to call me like that? Do they know what I've been going through? Like hell they do! All of that confidence that I have gets ruined just by a simple comment...Funny isn't it? I can't cry,can't feel...just skip it and waiting again for something like that to come...I can't stand it,seriously I can't. I feel caged.Also ... WTF was her comment to me? Do I look like a garbage to her? She's the same girl that ruined my b-day (some of you might read the post that I raised here about that story),denied my love for her,says that doesn't trust me and says words that DO FUCKING HURT! and she things that only she remembers her wounds from me...Well I do too and she doesn't give a damn! I just don't get it why treats me like that. There are days that I can feel that we're all cool and friends and days like today that she says something and boom!...
We've been through a lot and it will be unbelievable all that to be a fake friendship.
But the hardest part it's the freakin' bullying. Damn I can't even date because of it...........................(not to meantion walking out in the street without feeling somehow scared and all the other symptoms)
There are people out there that have been through worse...Yes I get that and I really try to help them-wanting to,plus, that doesn't make my situation be oh it's alright it'll be fine since I'm-not-in-the-worse-situation-in-the-world...
And perhaps, yes I'm over analyzing it but it's like a virus that I can't stop thinking of it!

...and then boom the flash back came... I feel so...weak...I just want to break my room and then all thoses heads that say shit like that for me.
and at last punch my friend and ask her why the hell did she say that?

Just venting.If you read all that please respond or at least thank you for reading it! :)

p.s: Thanks a lot Virtual teen for being my secret,internet safehouse. It really makes me feel a lot better.....!

and for the record (I really want to scream that phrase right now)......I'm not straight. I'm bisexual!

Thunduhbuhlt
February 28th, 2012, 12:43 AM
I just hate moments like this...
So we were hanging out to one of my friends house talking to someone in omegle.As we were talking the stranger pointed out that I look very straight.
I responded and then one of my friends said oh Nick you should add that guy, he's the first person you meet that finds out that you're straight from the first sight.
I answered by asking her what did she mean. She didn't respond (probably didn't even listen to me since we were in a party mode).
But who was I trying to fool? me or her?
For so many years in school everyone was making fun of me calling me a fag or gay,pussy and all these.... (probably 'cause of how my voice used to be odd and 'cause of a gay friend that I have) (I still hear comments like these every now and then)What the fuck do they know about me to call me like that? Do they know what I've been going through? Like hell they do! All of that confidence that I have gets ruined just by a simple comment...Funny isn't it? I can't cry,can't feel...just skip it and waiting again for something like that to come...I can't stand it,seriously I can't. I feel caged.Also ... WTF was her comment to me? Do I look like a garbage to her? She's the same girl that ruined my b-day (some of you might read the post that I raised here about that story),denied my love for her,says that doesn't trust me and says words that DO FUCKING HURT! and she things that only she remembers her wounds from me...Well I do too and she doesn't give a damn! I just don't get it why treats me like that. There are days that I can feel that we're all cool and friends and days like today that she says something and boom!...
We've been through a lot and it will be unbelievable all that to be a fake friendship.
But the hardest part it's the freakin' bullying. Damn I can't even date because of it...........................(not to meantion walking out in the street without feeling somehow scared and all the other symptoms)
There are people out there that have been through worse...Yes I get that and I really try to help them-wanting to,plus, that doesn't make my situation be oh it's alright it'll be fine since I'm-not-in-the-worse-situation-in-the-world...
And perhaps, yes I'm over analyzing it but it's like a virus that I can't stop thinking of it!

...and then boom the flash back came... I feel so...weak...I just want to break my room and then all thoses heads that say shit like that for me.
and at last punch my friend and ask her why the hell did she say that?

Just venting.If you read all that please respond or at least thank you for reading it! :)

p.s: Thanks a lot Virtual teen for being my secret,internet safehouse. It really makes me feel a lot better.....!

and for the record (I really want to scream that phrase right now)......I'm not straight. I'm bisexual!

Unfortunately for many people, homosexuality and bisexuality are not well tolerated.

Whenever you are being bullied, just remember, they are doing it for some reason. Maybe they themselves have something that they are hiding, or are abused at home. Also, if you take it to heart, you are letting them win. Just pretend they are joking, and even though they may not, let them think whatever.

Just don't do anything rational. Way too many people are lost due to suicide, and it is a horrible thing. And self harm is only good for the moment. And drugs just make it worse.

DarkNick
February 29th, 2012, 07:47 AM
Unfortunately for many people, homosexuality and bisexuality are not well tolerated.

Whenever you are being bullied, just remember, they are doing it for some reason. Maybe they themselves have something that they are hiding, or are abused at home. Also, if you take it to heart, you are letting them win. Just pretend they are joking, and even though they may not, let them think whatever.

Just don't do anything rational. Way too many people are lost due to suicide, and it is a horrible thing. And self harm is only good for the moment. And drugs just make it worse.

Thanks for your reply and sometimes I'm such a coward. I wouldn't be able to kill myself 'cause of my fear for the pain that I would feel...

Jack117
February 29th, 2012, 07:53 AM
Well....what? Did you just say the entire fucking story was fake? XD

DarkNick
February 29th, 2012, 10:49 AM
Well....what? Did you just say the entire fucking story was fake? XD

Huh?
I don't get what you mean... :confused:

melia_allen
February 29th, 2012, 11:34 AM
okay let me just say this just by lookinga at your picture (which i think is you) i would say you are straight....

Breakeven
February 29th, 2012, 02:44 PM
welcome to my world dude!
same things happening with me

DarkNick
March 1st, 2012, 08:08 AM
okay let me just say this just by lookinga at your picture (which i think is you) i would say you are straight....
Well maybe yes,maybe no. I mean....I've fallen in love somehow with a guy in the past...(Girls too)


welcome to my world dude!
same things happening with me

Well it's somehow good to know that there's someone out there who feels you.
I'm sorry and we can chat if you want to! :)

Breakeven
March 14th, 2012, 04:37 PM
Well maybe yes,maybe no. I mean....I've fallen in love somehow with a guy in the past...(Girls too)




Well it's somehow good to know that there's someone out there who feels you.
I'm sorry and we can chat if you want to! :)
yea sure we should :D

DarkNick
March 16th, 2012, 12:49 AM
yea sure we should :D

:) :D

Calex
March 22nd, 2012, 08:36 AM
Exact situation with me. I hate it>.< just cause I act different and reply with "non manly" answers doesn't mean I'm gay, even though I'm bi, but still.

kai99
March 22nd, 2012, 01:21 PM
Being cute doesnt mean you're gay. People are stupid sometimes

alex4nder
March 24th, 2012, 07:25 PM
Words really do hurt.. sometimes more than actual physical violence.. oh how well i personally know that.

Unfortunately for many people, homosexuality and bisexuality are not well tolerated.

This is also so very true.. and it's a shame, as it would be wonderful if we could all just get along (never happening) and live our respective lives in peace without fear of getting ragged on by some closeminded homophobe just because they felt the need to air their hateful opinions

Way too many people are lost due to suicide, and it is a horrible thing. And self harm is only good for the moment. And drugs just make it worse.

It's really depressing when bullied kids these days see suicide as the only way out.. but with no one caring or even pretending to do so, after years of constant physical and mental abuse, can you fault them for wanting it all to just stop?

I know i can't and it saddens me beyond belief.. as suicide is not the answer and it never will be.

But i digress.. i wish you strength and hope you'll find it within yourself to stay strong.. don't give up.. things will improve.. they've got to. :)