For Those Who Hang with Girls

[minimoya]

All my life I have been best friends with girls and hung out with them. There was this kid last year who called me gay all the time (when I'm not) and one of the reasons was because, as he says, you hang out with only girls. I don't usually hang out with guys, but have a good amount of them. Anyone else so hangs out with girls and has been called gay? Why is that?

[senior.2013]

Its because girls hang out with homosexual guys because they arent worried about being hit on in that situation. Start to hang out with guys, too maybe. Or just ignore them.

[AppealToReason]

Them fuckers are jealous they have to hang out with dudes because all the girls are with you. :P


It's just kids being stupid and immature.

[Antagonist]

Thats me right now.
I hang with girls because guys here are douche bags who act gay to get major attention, which is so degrading and disrespectful.

[Stronger]

Them fuckers are jealous they have to hang out with dudes because all the girls are with you. :P


It's just kids being stupid and immature.

Haha I love this ^, and god I hate people like this, just ignore them they are immature, I had this problem in 9th grade, b/c I hung out with girls and not guys, I just ignored them, cause I knew they were dumb and wrong

[AHSboy]

Just tell him that the only reason you hang with girls is because you're popular with them. Yeah, I had a few people like that, and after I had one of the girls (one of their girlfriends) to pretend to flirt with me, and ignore him, they stopped. Not sure if it's the best thing for you to do because everyone's different, but that's what I did.

[TeddyBearRock]

Yer, same. But the reason I hang out with a girl is coz I fancy them. Lol

[smexykid]

dude, i know exactely what your talking about. I dont know what is with people. Like firstly stop acting like you know all about me and 2 i am with girls who r attractive and i think i win...people are....ignorant

[jaycee.broham]

I have a friend that just hangs out with girls, but one of thoes girls is his gf... And some of his friends would like to have him as a bf than their bf their with now

[Diverperry]

that was me in middle school and I know it can be tough to deal with. Just keep on going forward because "those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind" it doesn't matter what other people think about you, because you know what's true

[qmann8]

im the same way. i really dont have many guy friends but i have tons of girl friends. i just dont like the stupidity and assholeness of most guys. haha but i have a hand full of really close guy friends too. i just get along better with girls i guess.

[Abyssal Echo]

Its because girls hang out with homosexual guys because they arent worried about being hit on in that situation. Start to hang out with guys, too maybe. Or just ignore them.

yep I agree with Senior2013

[WonderTastic]

guys are dumb tell them if i ani sucking you up then im not gay and why you worried ... maybe you gay.. sorry this happened to me alot and it sets me the ___ off ugh................. most gay guys hang with girls cause they the only ones who accept them so appling that logic if you hang with girls you gay. yea im bi but they didnt bother to ask they just labeled me gay and my voice didn't help.... i say just dont worry bout what anyone say do u

[DMARS]

I have a friend that hangs out with mostly girls but a few guys and a lot of people think he is gay but I know he isn't it might be bc of the way he acts sometimes but idk if u have tht problem or if it is just bc u hang out with girls only
I dont see a problem with it at all

[samb12]

ya i have my best friend is a girl like when i was younger i was teased for it because i think it was a immaturity thing but over time they have come to understand and it is all ok and stuff

[Silicate Wielder]

I find myself usually ending up hanging out with girls at certain places, I find that in missouri its easy to make friends with girls but then you'll find yourself hanging out with mostly girls.

added on:
im missouri You usually don't get made fun for it unless that person is a jerk or just has issues against it (all people have their opinions) . But being friends with girls isn't bad actually, it means that you get along with girls REALLY well. but girls usually don't accept you as part of their group untill they know youwell enough. but if you aren't an asshole towards girls like most guys, they will accept you quickly.
Btw, i'm straight.

[Can'tHelpIt]

At my school to be freinds with a guy you have to be a jock or a skater
Plus they are extremely assholey and they always touch eachother.

Girls I don't have to worry about my junk being randomly grabbed or be judged about what I like

[loganbenson]

I hang with girls but guys have grown on me....just keep doing what you do

[Bigswedishboy]

Same story man same story

[Evan-9]

Ive hung out with chicks all my life and people question me and tease me about it. For some reason I get along with them better. So youre definetly not alone. And not gay. Im straight and my best friends are girls. No big deal. :)

[Thanatos]

Out of my 4 best friends, 3 of them are girls. But then again I am Bi, so thats not really helping you. Honestly my sexuality has nothing to do with them being my best friends, they've just been so for 7 years ish, which is longer then I've known Im Bi- anyways.

[Mtc 10]

Because most of the time when a guy as all girl friends. he is super fem. and prob gay. and has a high voice.. U need guy friends! Girls are too much drama!!! guys are chill and laid back !! get dude friends learn how to be a guy! Ill admit i have alotta girl friends but thts only because we flirt and stuff. Cuz imma stud. haha

[thomasgj]

that's kinda retarded... wouldn't it be the other way around? haha i'm gay and hang with more guys since i love the boyssssssss

[thomasgj]

Because most of the time when a guy as all girl friends. he is super fem. and prob gay. and has a high voice.. U need guy friends! Girls are too much drama!!! guys are chill and laid back !! get dude friends learn how to be a guy! Ill admit i have alotta girl friends but thts only because we flirt and stuff. Cuz imma stud. haha

"learn to be a guy"? wtf does that mean?

[Mtc 10]

"learn to be a guy"? wtf does that mean?

Because most people I know who have all girl friends. are SUPER fem sometimes gay.. and dont really know how to be a typical "guy". Why would u want all girl friends too much DRAMA!!! i mean my chick friends as i stated before are chicks i flirt with.!!

[pmm98]

Like others have mentioned, it's not a big deal. Who you are friends with does not determine your sexuality. You'd think that hanging out with girls would be a symbol of heterosexuality? But like others have said, it's just kids being kids. If you think back, you were probably guilty of the same type of thing at one point in time. I have plenty of girl friends because I find them to be easier to talk to. As long as you make it known that you ARE NOT GAY and that you will hit on them and find them attractive and possibly fall for them, that's all that matters. Sometimes, with guys, it's all about a masculinity contest. Which is absolutely fine sometimes, good for the core, but it gets tiring for everyone to put on that front all the time. I've yet to meet one guy that is ALWAYS acting in your face like a jerk, when they get home and unwind were just like every other normal person. Not feminine, not masculine, just there. Doing whatever we want to do. Freeely. So don't worry about it, and maybe start hanging out with some dudes if you want? If you find people you can connect with, they will become some of your best friends. I found that out this year in 8th grade. And it was difficult for me, because when I was younger I really hung out with my older sister so I had a strong girl influence so when I was littler like 8/9/10/11 I acted more feminine and hung out with mostly all girls, but in 8th the testosterone kicked in and I acted differently, naturally mind you, and begun connecting on a friendship level with more dudes. It was harder though cause I had isolated myself from some people and trust me, I been called gay plenty. Still here and still not gay, hahahah

[pmm98]

OH OH OH and to Mtc 10, he's just trying to hype himself up on a forum, who you hang out with doesn't mean shit. You can hang out with tons of druggies and that doesnt mean you have to do drugs. He even said, if you hang out with girls you have a high voice or something like that FUCK THAT, it's called genes and its something you were given by your father or mother professor

[Mtc 10]

OH OH OH and to Mtc 10, he's just trying to hype himself up on a forum, who you hang out with doesn't mean shit. You can hang out with tons of druggies and that doesnt mean you have to do drugs. He even said, if you hang out with girls you have a high voice or something like that FUCK THAT, it's called genes and its something you were given by your father or mother professor

Trying to hype myself up? Where did you get that "great" analogy?? and no.. truth is your not living in reality. Most guys who have all girl friends HAVE a high voice not anything to do with genes. Its because your so used to being around chicks you assume its ok to talk that way or you just naturally pick it up. And yea who you hang with does mean something. You have a low sense of reason and obviously you like to sugarcoat things. Not me

[Mind Blank]

I hang out with girls because most of the guys I know are a**holes.
Most of these girls are pretty boyish though.

Never been called gay, but my refusal to join in on their (surprisingly often) dry humping in public has raised eyebrows.

[blackmusicbox215]

I've always hung out with girls. Most guys I meet are immature and I can't deal with them. Just ignore what people say. The only thing that should matter is you know you're not gay. People are just haters and it will happen, it's not worth it to get stressed over it.

[The_Joker]

I am in the same situation as you. They are just jealous. ;)

[NephilimAzrael]

Woah, it's like u read my mind XD now lotsa guys (especially on here) are really mature and kind, but more so out there r total jerks (at least on the outside) and r jealous that u can hang so casually w/ girls, or r just triyng to undermine u and see this as a good way to do it so they can feel better bout themselves. Don't be mad at them or pity yourself... in fact, pity them.

[curiosity97]

i hang with all girls and a few guys and people sometimes think i'm gay but i just think they're jealous :)

[Nigels]

I hang with girls all the time, because i just feel more relaxed around them, and most of the guys in our school are d-bags

[SourceRed]

Yeah I hang out with girls mostly too
Most of the guys at my school are annoying

[Silicate Wielder]

Actually, ever since i really hit puberty, i've been ending up as friends with lots of girls, its just who you are, some people are accepted more by girls than guys, where others it may be the other way around.

And I've noticed that most people i know who said they were gay actually turned out to be straight, puberty is just when hormones are going crazy making you attracted to a random gender untill they settle enough.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

I'm exactly like that I have more girl friends and my best friend is a girl people.call me gay for that reason my friends know I'm far from gay lol

[Thunduhbuhlt]

All my life I have been best friends with girls and hung out with them. There was this kid last year who called me gay all the time (when I'm not) and one of the reasons was because, as he says, you hang out with only girls. I don't usually hang out with guys, but have a good amount of them. Anyone else so hangs out with girls and has been called gay? Why is that?

98% of my friends are girls, they are just so...idk easy to talk to and don't give you a bunch of shit like guys do...

I have never been called gay to my face, but am sure it has happened...

Who cares what other people think anyways. If you're gay then they shouldn't care.

homophobia hurts straight and gay people...it's truly ridiculous.

[Noah Thorpe]

All my life I have been best friends with girls and hung out with them. There was this kid last year who called me gay all the time (when I'm not) and one of the reasons was because, as he says, you hang out with only girls. I don't usually hang out with guys, but have a good amount of them. Anyone else so hangs out with girls and has been called gay? Why is that?

I can relate completely :) I've been questioned from time to time and although I'm still just a kid I sort of leave the question hanging for a few seconds which I guess tells the asker "They're Gay". Really bugs me. ;)

[WoShiDavid95]

Them fuckers are jealous they have to hang out with dudes because all the girls are with you. :P


It's just kids being stupid and immature.

This is so much win.
And in the first place, you shouldn't even be using "gay" as an insult, it belittles all the homosexual people out there (A prominent one being Adam Lambert) and it makes you an intolerant, narrow-minded homophobic.

[WithoutFear]

girls entertain me more. i mean i have more guy firends than girl friends, but i usually prefer girlfriends

[Jay_Team_Swagg]

I havent bee. Called gay,but yah I hang out with girls to, but most of the time I balance.it out

[tristian0714]

I went through that since 3rd grade and I was the one that was only trying to understand girls more and in 4th through 5th grade one of them was my gf and they were just mad cause they all like me instead of them

[Jake777dylan]

Haha same here bro so I just ignor them

[Frankie66]

Yeah 99% of my friends are girls and the other one percent is guys and yeah have been called gay once or twice but I don't care I don't particularly like hanging with my guy friends most of them are asses.

[Drew5]

Gayer if it's guys only, so you are str8 the others are pretty gay

[Ddare28]

I am with you. I too hang out with alot of girls, and have been accused of being gay. I just get along with girls more easily. But I do have many guys friends too. I have gotten use to it. I just tell them I'm not gay and I don't care what the say. I think they do this because we tend to always be talking to a girl, or walking with one and that they get jealous that so many girls like you. So they try to tear you down. Just ignore them.

[macbox84]

yea i do but what they dnt realize is that i get it in with all of them hahaha

[chris1997]

Them fuckers are jealous they have to hang out with dudes because all the girls are with you.

Agree but watch your language

[Greg1994]

That's how it is for me also, honestly out of all my close friends that I actually hang out with, 90% are girls. It's not unusual for me to go to the mall with 5 other girls, we all have a great time so who cares, they can say what they want about me, but most of my friends are girls and last time I checked, hanging out with girls wasn't a sin :P

[somanyquestions]

I do and it can be rough I am not gay but another guy is in the group and once an asshole pot-head prep said whats the matter with you are you gay. The gay guy was a few feet away and turned around and said trust me he is far from it. Most guys here act weird "imature" so I went out and found a guy friend that is not gay nor a jock and he is cool then he asked me the same question and i said, well first of let me tell you that if you see me in person and herd me you'd think i am 10 year old... anways I said have i hit on you he said no how about anybody you know he said no then i said so why are you asking me that and i normaly wear jeans so i pulled up my jeans a little and said look my leg then had no dark hairs then i said look showing him my throwt and said do you see an adams apple and then he just was kind laughing i said what he said i was just messing with you. :I
but heck when i get taller and i am gonna get taller i will look down on those guys and ask them are you gay and let them feel the hurt
besides when i get physicaly mature i hang around with the hot prepy girls and they love me just wait things always turn out okay in the eyes of love

[Loling]

Exactly what happens to me in school. I guess their jealous. What you say, is exactly what happens to me!

[Panda]

I hang out with mostly girls. In middle school a bunch of guys called me gay and even asked me if I was but once high school started coming around they were pretty envious of me because I could and would approach any girl while they just watched. So eventually the time will come when people are jealous of you. :)

[The Blonde dude]

i do but i also have some guy friends kids are real critic's when it comes to others but, i just ignore it when they call me gay because i've heard it so many times it doesnt bother me anymore

[OnlyOneChance]

All my life I have been best friends with girls and hung out with them. There was this kid last year who called me gay all the time (when I'm not) and one of the reasons was because, as he says, you hang out with only girls. I don't usually hang out with guys, but have a good amount of them. Anyone else so hangs out with girls and has been called gay? Why is that?

I get called gay all the time for the same exact reason!

[NotASpyingRent]

The individual who called you out was probably extremely jealous that you were spending time which the opposite sex while the other person couldn't. Just ignore it. At the end of the say; you're the one with the girls.

[BrassMonkey]

Thats me right now.
I hang with girls because guys here are douche bags who act gay to get major attention, which is so degrading and disrespectful.

I know Right, Same Here. Most of them at my school are douches, but there are some that are pretty cool that I hang out with.

[LatinaVivit]

I hang out with mostly girls too(though I'm gay). Just say you're "getting more" than he is!

[Drew5]

I hang out with both, but their logic is backwards. Gay and hang out with girls seems like an odd fit. If you were gay you would hang with gays or everybody, hanging with girls seems like it would be the last option if ur gay

[badboy96]

All my life I have been best friends with girls and hung out with them. There was this kid last year who called me gay all the time (when I'm not) and one of the reasons was because, as he says, you hang out with only girls. I don't usually hang out with guys, but have a good amount of them. Anyone else so hangs out with girls and has been called gay? Why is that?


yer i have but not verry bad

[jmrsp]

That used to happen to me but hey, nobody can blame you for being a ladies man!

[MattKing]

Yea I usually hang out with girls... I usually get called gay too but I just don't let it bother Cu's I know I'm not gay and that's all that matters...




+Rep if it helped!

[bLaZe_42]

This happened to me a year ago...just ignore it and just keep being you

[pepe78]

all my friends are girls & i always get talked about, i think its because guys get jealous. i'm also not an asshole to girls like most guys.

[MatthewC]

this happens to me im with a group of girls and get asked after if im gay and i say no

[Conner Davies]

at my first school ( all those many years ago) i uest to hang out with girls (1 had a crush on for like 3 years) but the school always made me hang round with downies. so i got called gay but ever since then my life has taken a turn for the worst. dont make my mistakes pleze

[PinkFloyd]

Okay, for all you guys saying that you NEED guy friends. That aint true. I'm completely strait. Like I wouldnt dream of having ANY emotional connection with another dude. To me it just sounds nasty. But anyways I have been in a sexual relationship for about a year now. 9 out of the 10 closest friends are girls. The girls im friends with arent all girly and stuff. i mean there not tom boys but they play battlefield 3 online with me. (they're all 7s and up)

[ImCoolBeans]

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