How to find a girlfriend ***lesbians/homoromantics please

[Smeagol]

So, I am a homoromantic asexual... and I am having considerable difficulties finding a girlfriend. Not just a girlfriend, the right person for me... anybody have any ideas?

[Jupiter]

well, just keep open, listen, crush, and eventually the right person will come along.

[Stronger]

Like Eric said, keep open..don't give up in your search and someone will come along :)

[Smeagol]

Yep... she's out there... there are seven billion people in the world?!?! Oh well... I'd better search...

[Stronger]

Don't worry Maeve, your young you have a ton of time to find her, I bet she's out there waiting

[kenoloor]

The harder you search, the less likely you are to find what you're looking for, it seems. Finding a girlfriend should hardly be a priority at this point in life; stick with friends. They tend to be more reliable anyway. Romantic involvement has a habit of fucking up relationships.

[botwa]

if you're asexual it seems more likely to search for a friend not (let's say) a partner
so I can't see a problem here

[Smeagol]

Right... too true. I can't find friends OR significant others. I'll try looking for friends first...

[kenoloor]

Right... too true. I can't find friends OR significant others. I'll try looking for friends first...

Good decision, I think. And even if you were looking for a partner, having a great friendship is one of the most solid foundations that a healthy romantic relationship can have.

[melia_allen]

that is true. I hope you find the right friends now.

[Smeagol]

Thanks everybody for the advice :)