Handjobs and returning the favor

[Buranri]

Hey, sorry if this gets into a discussion of technique - please try and avoid that, I'd prefer this didn't get locked.

So! This is mainly for girls - If you give a guy a hand job, do you expect to get fingered?

For background, last night I got one for the first time. I didn't give anything back though... Honestly, because we were in kind of an awkward position and I couldn't get my hand down there. I was lying on the ground and she was kind of lying on her side next to me. I feel like I should have moved to a different position or something... But I've never gotten that far before, so I really didn't know what I was supposed to do. If you had your hand down a guys pants and was grabbing his dick, would you expect him to return the favor?

Second, and this is the part that might get locked - What do girls like when they're being fingered? Or perhaps more importantly, is there anything that's an absolute no-no?

[KatieBaby]

i think its good if the guy returns the favour but i wouldnt epect it each time. like sometimes if i just gave him a quick hj there wouldnt be time for more.
i wont say techniques for the second part, but just start out slow and find out what she likes and make sure you get her lubricated.

[melia_allen]

i don't expect so yeah

[heykay]

I don't expect it back, it doesn't matter much to me either because it doesn't feel all that good, at least to me. And just make sure your nails are trimmed, Haha

[VeryWell]

Depends on who, and how I feel.

[TDB95]

Im the type of guy who would return the favor because thats just the way i am
But technique wise go slow and dont be rough haha thats what ive learned from my experiences

[Auzzie 94]

Im the type of guy who would return the favor because thats just the way i am
But technique wise go slow and dont be rough haha thats what ive learned from my experiences

This comment perfectly explains me, I have been called "ladies man" because if when get a handjob.. I return the favor with some finger action and rubbing action. When I get a headjob off a girl, I return the favor with some oral (sometimes I mix oral and using my hands), variation is always good. Just make sure you find what the girls likes and how she likes it. Watch for her facial expressions, her body movement and listen for the sounds she's making, also listen to her breathing. That's all I can say other wise it would be getting a little too far into the "technique" side of things, but they are my tips for when you're giving a female oral or using a finger/your fingers.

But when I give oral or use my fingers.. or both, I never expect anything back, that's also why I have the nickname "ladies man".

[Carolyn]

i think its good if the guy returns the favour but i wouldnt epect it each time. like sometimes if i just gave him a quick hj there wouldnt be time for more.
i wont say techniques for the second part, but just start out slow and find out what she likes and make sure you get her lubricated.

It sounds like you want to return the favor - which is a good thing. Also, everything in that quote up there is true. I will add that if the girl isn't lubricated it will hurt. And she won't enjoy it. So please take your time and make sure shes comfortable. And don't hesitate to ask her how it is. And If you feel completely clueless, ask her to show you what feels good. She won't think you're stupid - she will see that you care about making it feel good for her.

[Abnormal]

Of course I want him to return the favor. I don't give handjobs to just anybody. He should feel special.

[Hope4u]

I agree with Abnormal..if he's getting something then I should too. although I've only given one to my exbf and then he tried to finger me and it was a hard to do in the backseat plus he wasn't that great at it either.

[Thebrat217]

Return the favor we likit:P

[DanielleD]

I expect something back

[lydia.ann00]

not always.. depends

[Christine.]

I've never given one but I would

[Tilico18]

Something in return huh... :twisted: Muhahaha! I see profit... LOL

[Scottydog]

I'd expect back!

[vernon]

i would

[Human]

I'd give back

[StoppingTime]

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