Gay?

[Jay6559]

This is kind-of wierd saying this but I get aroused by men (this is a feeling that I dont really want to have) but I also like the idea of having a girlfriend but dont get turned on if I see a woman does this make me gay? :confused:

[Kamloops.man]

It helps to kno how old you are. You might be in a curious stage. And maybe requesting to move to The Gay Bar?

[heyya170]

maybe you're bi? have you ever experimented w/ either?

[Maverick]

And maybe requesting to move to The Gay Bar?
No, it's fine here. The gay bar is a diary not an offical forum.

[Just...Will]

You're probably just curious. If you think about it, there's no way you can be gay if you're genuinely attracted to girls, right? You're probably just curious. You could be bi, but don't go around calling yourself bi to people you know because it's more than likely that you'll be straight.

[Ironic Infidel In England]

yeah.. don't go round saying you're anything until you're sure.

[Trebor]

Probably jus raging hormones.

[Jay6559]

It helps to kno how old you are.
I'm 16, I was afraid this may be past the curious age?

[Trebor]

You shouldn't have been. Hormones play fuck with your system 'till you're about 20. SO yeah, I'd say just hormones. Although there's no harm in experimening in the mean time.

[Jay6559]

Thanks for your replys. The one thing I am still worried about is that when I masturbate I think of guys and never girls, could this be hormones too or not?

[Romeo]

As everyone else has said before, you're just curious. It's ok to think like this!!!

[MoveAlong]

I'm 16, I was afraid this may be past the curious age?

There is no curious age. You know, people deal with these feelings and learn to love them.
We can't really tell tho, you could be curious or not, you could be bi or gay or straight. I personally think your bi, but it's something you have to sort out.

[LateForTheSky]

Well i'm quessing u must be quite young so to be oinest with u a think u might just be going through a mild curious stage and probably are str8 dont worry even if u are gay most people in sociaty have got over the thing about people being gay, in saying tht not all have

[MrPeace]

yea mate, your completly normal

[boy_lover88]

Being 16, you're still in the curiousity stage. I'm still somewhat like you are now, only I've discovered a bit more towards my sexuality. Being gay is not a shameful thing, just to let you know. If you're still prone to liking girls and seeing yourself in the future with a mate whom is female, then it is likely that you are either bi OR you are just curious about what it's like to be with someone of the same sex. I suggest experimentation first, to discover whether or not you can truly think of yourself as a homosexual.

[A.J.]

you might be gay you might might not, it dosent matter. most people are a little gay. you have to experiment