am i a slut?

[Ellie wood crainey]

ok here goes i was at this party and i got quite drunk and my friend had photographic proof that i took all my clothes off made out with six guy, fingered by for of them and gave oral to two of them. and i didn't know does this mean im a slut?

[beccaweiser]

No, Ellie, it just means you need to watch your liquor. You lost your inhibitions that other time, and just have to make sure you don't lose them again.

[Mortal Coil]

You're only a slut if you think you are. You weren't in your right mind when that happened, and people will probably call you a slut, but it doesn't make you one necessarily.
I hate to preach but you really shouldn't get that drunk.

[Breakeven]

I wont say u are coz u were drunk!

[ClaireMarie]

I wont say u are coz u were drunk!

I agree

[Abnormal]

You were drunk, so you obviously weren't in your right mind. The only pervert in this situation is your friend for letting this happen to you when she knew if you were in your right mind you wouldn't want it to happen. Your friend and those guys took advantage of you, I'd tell someone about this and grab those pictures before she can give them to anyone you might not want that person to see.

[shatter..]

No, but I wouldn't drink underage.

[dinosaur_go_rawr]

If that is something that happens often then yes you are a slut.

But im assuming this has only happened once, and you wasnt in the right state of mind to prevent it. As long as you dont think that what happened was ok, and it dosent happen again, i dont think that means your a slut. Xx

[Smeagol]

No offense, but you ought to hold off on the liquor...

[Anna G]

You were drunk, so you obviously weren't in your right mind. The only pervert in this situation is your friend for letting this happen to you when she knew if you were in your right mind you wouldn't want it to happen. Your friend and those guys took advantage of you, I'd tell someone about this and grab those pictures before she can give them to anyone you might not want that person to see.

.Or someone uploads them to the web and they go viral. Next time have a good friend with you to keep you safe

[MonsterChic]

No, Ellie, it just means you need to watch your liquor. You lost your inhibitions that other time, and just have to make sure you don't lose them again.

This.

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

Since you were drunk, no. Your friend sounds horrible...and... interesting. I mean she took photos of all of that?!

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

No, but I wouldn't drink underage.

I don't think she's considered underage in England. (I'm not too sure though)

[dinosaur_go_rawr]

I don't think she's considered underage in England. (I'm not too sure though)

You have to be 18

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

You have to be 18

Oh..sorry. My only knowledge of England is Harry Potter, and my friend who visited England once..

As you can probably tell..I'm American :)

[elliot_47]

You allowed yourself to be in the situation in the first place. No matter how drunk you are, there should be a voice in the back of your head telling you no. Yes, yes you are a slut.

[Jordanq95]

I'll be the only honest person here, you're a slut and you shouldn't drink again until you're 21.

[missy_moo]

I agree with the above. It's not just because 'boys can do it and we can't'. It's a respect thing from your mates too. I don't think there's anything wrong with social nudity if that's what you enjoy, but the making out stuff is a bit naff.

[Natural all over]

Not at all; you just had a bad night and some things went wrong. Those guys were wrong to take advantage of you; still, before doing anything sexual, just make sure you are on top of your game, i.e. not drunk.

[Chicka15]

I wont say u are coz u were drunk!

This

[Jolies]

No, in vt girls do the same to pancheri. And what about your friend, he still have the photos?

[Danielle's dreams]

So u had fun !! All the people judging u are just jealous it wasnt them getting the attention !! Oh and get new friends that are genuine !!

[Brighteyes]

First and foremost was this a private party, held within a private dwelling (house etc.) the reason for asking this is simply if it wasn't..ie, held in a public place, such as a hotel, pub, restaurant, then you were breaking the law, as you are under age....the legal age to consume alcohol is 18 yrs within the United Kingdom.

I would also start questioning the type of so-called friends you hang out with, as quite obviously they simply aren't friends at all.....True friends look after each other, and would never have let you get in such a drunken state, let alone allowed you to get in such a compromising state of undress.

Then there is the situation of the sexual acts you performed, plus the complete idiot of a "friend" who then proceeded to take photos of you.....That is bordering on the edge of pervertedness and voyeurism...A criminal act in itself.

Seriously you need to take stock of yourself at once, before you find your life spiralling out of control.

[Carolyn]

ok here goes i was at this party and i got quite drunk and my friend had photographic proof that i took all my clothes off made out with six guy, fingered by for of them and gave oral to two of them. and i didn't know does this mean im a slut?

You're not a slut.

However, you were extremely drunk. Which is not good. Something could have happened that you would have really regretted... and it sounds like it did... but it's not as bad as it could have been. Just never let it happen again.

On the positive side, you didn't get pregnant. (or have full out sex). Please be more careful next time!

[Carolyn]

First and foremost was this a private party, held within a private dwelling (house etc.) the reason for asking this is simply if it wasn't..ie, held in a public place, such as a hotel, pub, restaurant, then you were breaking the law, as you are under age....the legal age to consume alcohol is 18 yrs within the United Kingdom.

I would also start questioning the type of so-called friends you hang out with, as quite obviously they simply aren't friends at all.....True friends look after each other, and would never have let you get in such a drunken state, let alone allowed you to get in such a compromising state of undress.

Then there is the situation of the sexual acts you performed, plus the complete idiot of a "friend" who then proceeded to take photos of you.....That is bordering on the edge of pervertedness and voyeurism...A criminal act in itself.

Seriously you need to take stock of yourself at once, before you find your life spiralling out of control.

While this sounds harsh, it's so true!
Remember that you can't take things back!

[Wanderer_]

Only if u keep getting drunk at parties and hoping/allowing that sort of thing to happen repeatedly

[Left Now]

ok here goes i was at this party and i got quite drunk and my friend had photographic proof that i took all my clothes off made out with six guy, fingered by for of them and gave oral to two of them. and i didn't know does this mean im a slut?

No,alcohol did this to you...avoid it at all it would affect on Neurons and will make you do somethings which you didn't mean to do them...

[DerBear]

Only if u keep getting drunk at parties and hoping/allowing that sort of thing to happen repeatedly

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