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Dimentio
February 24th, 2012, 08:00 PM
Hey guys i KNOW you all see this a lot so i was swearching VT and the internet but it is like no one felt the same as me!
Well i am gay and that is a deffinite ha ha, But i also think i am Asexual, Like i do masturbate but then i do not like going to the point of ejaculation and having the stuff on me, And i cannot imagine myself being nude with another guy or having another guy nude with me and doig stuff with each other.
I like this one guy more then ANYTHING but the thought of him nude same as anyone or like doing things with him and same as anyone, I just have no intrest in it what so ever and i am scared incase if i do get with him and he wants to have sex which ofcourse would end up happening that i won't satisfy him due to what i think of sex.
My friends think it could be Asexuality but like find it weird as i am a 15 year old boy who has not kissed anyone or anything, But like i said being in a sexual relationship to me is not intresting and i don't like the thought of it.
But being in a relationship were i could just could snuggle up the the person and always be hugging them and being with them and just being romantic and fluffy, Then yeah i like that a lot :)
So is this Asexuality or not? I just am confused as most people who are do not masturbate and sometimes i can picture stuff but nearly all the time it is the opposite to that.

I just told a friend and i feel so light and happy! :D If i feel like this after things i want to tell everyone i am gay so i feel better like this :)

Electra Heart
February 24th, 2012, 08:23 PM
Well, the specific definition of Asexuality is basically, you don't have any sexual attraction towards others. So, this seems to fit you. It doesn't mean that you can't masturbate or anything, it just means that you don't have the desire to perform sexual acts with others. As you say you are homosexual as well, I suppose that your brain is simply wired to not be attracted to sexual arousal but to mental attraction. Of course being asexual would still allow you to love someone, just not in a sexual manner. Hopefully, you'll find someone one day that shares similar feelings and you can can have a healthy, non-sexual relationship. Best of luck, Tim.

Dimentio
February 24th, 2012, 08:28 PM
Hey thnkas Tim :) Kind of a coincidence i was looking at Seans profile which led me to yours ha ha, Yeah just sexual activities, They are not intresting in the slightest ha ha, I hope you find that special someone too :)