what to do

[bananajo]

Iam worried about my sister i know she self harms but i don't know what do to i can find the right time to talk to her because she just changes the subject and I cant tell my parent its bad enough as it is with them!



what should I do?

Jo

[neverhavebeen223]

First off don't tell your parents. Don't even hint to your sister that you might. Because she'll seal herself off. Go about this slowly, sit her down, and talk about why she does it. Don't make her feel like a freak. She feels bad enough already. And some people can come across as insensitive, even when they're trying to help. So just watch what you say. She wont be able to stop overnight. This is something you wean yourself off of. Let her know she's loved, and try to target and find solutions to the reasons why she cuts.
Take it slow, be understanding, and that's a huge step towards her recovery.
Hope everything works out!:)
xoxo

[rukia_yua]

You make the time to show that you care and that it's okay wether you think it or not because you need to make it okay with her