Damnit/fuckit

[Dimitri]

OMFG, so I am sitting here with my mother, I love her, I came out to her two weeks ago almost, she was fine but of course she had to tell dad and my sister which I was fine with because it stopped me from having to tell them myself and saved me a lot of heartache at shit I did not need at the time....

But today my mother went to our doctor for a check-up and from there she proceeded to inform my physician what has been going on. My doctor has it in her fucking mind that I think I cam tout as being bisexual because o all this pressure, that i used it as an escape and because I am an attention whore (laymen's terms there.) But anyways I now get to go and see a nice man about my problems, mom wants to know and thinks that I am not fit for Josh or actually he isn't fit for me.

She thinks Josh needs me too much and that i am the type to bring the "Sick, hurt puppy home that i found on the side of the road" well newsflash bitch, I would leave it on the side of the street, who knows what kind of diseases it might have, I sure as fucking hell do not know....

So I need to schedule an appointment with this psychologist, and how does he know about being bisexual unless he is himself, or gay or whatever he might be? If he starts suing mind games he better watch out because I will play right back.

SO what should I do guys, just go with the flow, I mean I personally know that i could see myself being with a guy or girl and right now I am with Josh, he is awesome and I could not ask for anyone else....

I just wanna be left alone really, just be accepted, all my friends have been completely accepting of me, none of them have attacked me, it might be because they are afraid I will tell their secrets but I don't know....

GAHHHHH, shit, fuck, cunt, asshole, dike, motherfucker, and so on....

/rant

[ImCoolBeans]

Explain that to them. Tell them exactly how you feel, and they should accept it and respect you. You're not a child anymore, Robert. You're 19 years old and you are very well capable of making your own decisions.

[lone socailist]

the modern society generally doesn't except non-heterosexuals. people are stuck in the past. if you're proud of what you are and WHO you are, then just say fuck it! if your family doesn't except it, then let them think what they want! it not like you're bringing home prostitutes every night or are out on the street doin drugs. if it comes to it, disown em for not excepting you. you are family to them. so it SHOULDN'T be such a big deal to them

[Abyssal Echo]

the modern society generally doesn't except non-heterosexuals. people are stuck in the past. if you're proud of what you are and WHO you are, then just say fuck it! if your family doesn't except it, then let them think what they want! it not like you're bringing home prostitutes every night or are out on the street doin drugs. if it comes to it, disown em for not excepting you. you are family to them. so it SHOULDN'T be such a big deal to them

I agree !

[Donkey]

Robert, you're 19. Surely if your mother schedules an appointment with somebody that you don't want to see, you can simply cancel it or not go. You're not a baby anymore man. That shouldn't be rocket science.

[The_Narwhal]

Robert, you're 19. Surely if your mother schedules an appointment with somebody that you don't want to see, you can simply cancel it or not go. You're not a baby anymore man. That shouldn't be rocket science.

I agree with Jon here. Just cancel it or don't go.

Also explain how you feel to your mother. With enough explanation she may realize how you feel.

Also I would get a new doctor. This one sounds like a idiot.

[Jdawg91]

You should think to yourself repeatedly , im here to pursue my own interests because I can,its a free world and I can do what I want. Why should you give a shit what people think?

As for the psychologist,roll with it. It could be entertaining for you if you know how to act.

[Dimitri]

Robert, you're 19. Surely if your mother schedules an appointment with somebody that you don't want to see, you can simply cancel it or not go. You're not a baby anymore man. That shouldn't be rocket science.

Yes Jon, I understand but if I want to remain on an insurance plan with full and complete coverage I will do as they say, I may be almost 20 years old but in order to keep on my parents insurance I had to make all my medical documents visible to my parents.

I agree with Jon here. Just cancel it or don't go.

Refer to the above....

Also explain how you feel to your mother. With enough explanation she may realize how you feel.

ALready did, I am still going to go because maybe this psychologist can help me with some other things such as stress with school

Also I would get a new doctor. This one sounds like a idiot.

I am not int he mood to go searching for a new physician, she knows I am pissed, my doctor is actually a family friend. But anyways she is right in her trains of thought, I would have asked those same questions if I was in her position.

You should think to yourself repeatedly , im here to pursue my own interests because I can,its a free world and I can do what I want. Why should you give a shit what people think?

As for the psychologist,roll with it. It could be entertaining for you if you know how to act.

Ohhh, I fully intend on having some fun once I get what I need out of him, I study psychology as my minor, this will be interesting, I can promise that.

[The_Narwhal]

K, Dimitri. Best of luck dude :)