friend zone?

[bigboyjake]

So i really like one of my best friends and I have been good friends with her since 2nd grade and I want more than a friendship but I don't want it to be akward..... help please:confused:

[abc8375]

Dont

[Stronger]

Talk to her and see how she feels first, don't listen to the user above incase you end up ruining the friendship. If there are signs she likes you then "go for it" :P

[Human]

Well my girl friend (not girlfriend) confessed her love to me even though I knew her for 9 years. It's not awkward between us, because I acted cool and didn't take it like a big deal or tell anyone!
Just tell her but don't be all lovey dovey like "I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS MOMENT FOR YEARS" and definitely don't do what I put in my signature. It won't impress her
plus girls love a confident man

[ImCoolBeans]

Questions for Both Boys and Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[bigboyjake]

But I just feel that I will mess eveything up and idk if she likes me but I was at a party and she was there and we were kissing and I was feeling her up and she didn't seem to care at all so dose this mean she likes me or wat?

[Mortal Coil]

well just bring it up and see what her reaction is, from there you can tell if she likes you and if so, get it over with so that it's not awkward for any longer than it has to be.

[Morfinyon]

I know what you mean. In my case i didn't ask her out, because it was rather obvious that she didn't like me that way. Plus at that time her other guy friend asked her out and she was sort of disturbed ^^. I guess i just didn't want to hurt her in any way. But i told her about it once i got over her because i thought she deserved to know it. Sometimes i regret not having given it a chance, but i think i made the right decision.
But dude: She has been kissing you! That kind of is the most obvious hint she could give you.
So what i actually want to tell you: Do what you think is right and always think of this one rule: If you were 80 years old and would look back at your life, what would you think of your decision then? Would it make you happy or not?
Oh and sorry for the bad english, i'm a foreign kid ^^

[bigboyjake]

But then again me and her were some wat drunk

[Morfinyon]

Haha, how drunk? Drunk enough so you couldn't think clearly anymore and would just kiss any girl?

[bigboyjake]

Well drunk enough were I bit her thong in half haha. I wouldn't say I would kiss any other girl besides her twin sis ann I didn't even do that. So it just gave me courage to do wat I wouldn't normaly do to her but I did when I was drunk lol