Question for gay guys (Or straight somehow ha ha).

[Dimentio]

I think this could belong is Pubert For Boys but i dunno it is more about sexuality.
Well i just want to see if this is because of my abusive past or not but:
1. Would you rather be in a room full of girls or guys?
2. Would you rather be in a room of hot guys or averege/Ugly looking guys?
3. Do you get treated less for being gay?
4. And do you find you won't go certain places, Or wear certain things for being gay.
Reson i ask these is, I grew up with abusive men and i am currently living with a stepdad who i am 100% Certain is a pedophile and everyone i tell is sure of it too.
1. So i would rather be in a room full of girls then guys as i trust girls more and i have a fear of most guys mainly older.
2. I would rather be in a room of ugly/Averege looking guys as i am not too good looking and being with guys with nice bodies and looks make me more self aware then i already am.
3. No one knows but people who are sure of it have beaten me up and no one would go near me or talk to me for a long time until the rumors died down and a shop keeper once knew i had the money for the things i was buying but she dropped my money but said it was an accident (It clearly wasn't) And would not let me buy my things, They were mainly for my baby brother.
4. I don't go to swiming pools or places filled with people and i don't wear shorts or vests, I used to HATE Jeans but now i love them ha ha.
So yeah being Gay has changed a lot for me and gotten in the way of life but i am happy with it and well, My love life even though it is non exsitant is A LOT better then my striaght friends :)

[monkeyfish]

I don't think that your sexuality should change anything, I personally am straight but I don't see why some people are so homophobic, i personally have absolutely nothing against homosexual guys or girls. I find that people often tend to say things such as "he's gay im not doing sport with him", for some reason some straight people seem to believe that homosexuals seem to like EVERYONE of the same sex, which is a ridiculous thought, its the same as saying all straight guys like every girl. But anyone that treats you any different or worse than they would treat anyone else isn't even worth a second thought, they can tease and be abusive/harsh towards you all they want, but at the end of the day your the one that's proud of what/who they are. I think you should work on your confidence with wearing things though, no matter your sexuality or even just your views on your body you should be able to feel comfortable in anything wherever you want to go. As for the comment on your step father, that's a pretty serious accusation to make and it may be an unfair one, even though you have other people that agree with you it's not fair to comment on somebody being a "pedophile" without sufficient evidence, the way that you are viewing him and the comments you make on him can be the same as people making snide comments on you

[Dimentio]

Thanks, I wish more people was like you :)
Also i have explained it a lot in other threads but he gets my clothes out and runs my baths for me and ignores me when i ask him to stop and one time i fount some seamen in my bath, He follows me around the house and he never takes his eyes of me like he does not leave me alone and he always looks into my room and stairs at me when going past, When he thinks i am asleep he walks in my room and just stares at me and he gets naked around me and is very harsh to me but is like it with no one else, So i am not making unfair claimes here, I have the evidence i need, My lack of sleeping and eating is one.

[Short Circuit]

Have you talked to Childline (08001111)? Its a free number in the UK, and they are there to listen, and get you help if you need it. You do not have to give your real name to start with, and you can use any public telephone box to call them.

[Can'tHelpIt]

1. Would you rather be in a room full of girls or guys? Depends are the guys hot? nice? Are the girls bitchy?
2. Would you rather be in a room of hot guys or averege/Ugly looking guys?Hot dudes fo' sho
3. Do you get treated less for being gay? In tha closet
4. And do you find you won't go certain places, Or wear certain things for being gay nah

[Dimentio]

Thanks for actually answering it! Well lets just say it was a bunch of guys and women so they could be any type and also i am in the closet yet i do not look or act gay but i have a gay aroma ha ha, That is what people say, Thanks again for answering it :)
AND OH MY GOD! You live were Nemo is!

[Abyssal Echo]

[QUOTE=kieran283;1624992]I think this could belong is Pubert For Boys but i dunno it is more about sexuality.
Well i just want to see if this is because of my abusive past or not but:
1. Would you rather be in a room full of girls or guys? Guys
2. Would you rather be in a room of hot guys or averege/Ugly looking guys?Hot guys
3. Do you get treated less for being gay? not really
4. And do you find you won't go certain places, Or wear certain things for being gay. nope I wear what I want 2
Reson i ask these is, I grew up with abusive men and i am currently living with a stepdad who i am 100% Certain is a pedophile and everyone i tell is sure of it too.
1. So i would rather be in a room full of girls then guys as i trust girls more and i have a fear of most guys mainly older.
2. I would rather be in a room of ugly/Averege looking guys as i am not too good looking and being with guys with nice bodies and looks make me more self aware then i already am.
3. No one knows but people who are sure of it have beaten me up and no one would go near me or talk to me for a long time until the rumors died down and a shop keeper once knew i had the money for the things i was buying but she dropped my money but said it was an accident (It clearly wasn't) And would not let me buy my things, They were mainly for my baby brother.
4. I don't go to swiming pools or places filled with people and i don't wear shorts or vests, I used to HATE Jeans but now i love them ha ha.
So yeah being Gay has changed a lot for me and gotten in the way of life but i am happy with it and well, My love life even though it is non exsitant is A LOT better then my striaght friends :)

idk what 2 say dude my father was an alcoholic beat on my mom all the time. he never wanted me in the first place and did not hide the fact. my former step dad was also an alcoholic he was very abusive twards both me and my mom verbally, physically, plus liked to play mind games. I'm not afraid of older guys. in fact kinda prefer someone a bit older than me for a relationship.

[Abigballofdust]

1. Would you rather be in a room full of girls or guys?
It's really the same for me. Although I prefer being in a room full of guys (I know it's weird, but I like it more than being overwhelmed with women, specially when they start acting like chicken).
2. Would you rather be in a room of hot guys or averege/Ugly looking guys?
Average/ugly, couldn't concentrate in a room full of hot guys and would probably end up stepping back into myself and not saying anything for the whole time being there.
3. Do you get treated less for being gay?
Nobody knows, so I get treated equally.
4. And do you find you won't go certain places, Or wear certain things for being gay.
Nah, I don't let my orientation stop me from going somewhere.
I dress up normally so I don't really understand the second question.

[prob1996]

1. Would you rather be in a room full of girls or guys? Probably guys-I go to an all boys school ad I'm just used to dealing guys all the time. I have friends that are girls and have been around them but just not all the time.
2. Would you rather be in a room of hot guys or averege/Ugly looking guys? LOL Hot guys!!!! :D
3. Do you get treated less for being gay? Yes, i've been shoved into lockers, called names and even got into a fight :(
4. And do you find you won't go certain places, Or wear certain things for being gay Not really.

[miamikid786]

1. Would you rather be in a room full of girls or guys? Guys
2. Would you rather be in a room of hot guys or averege/Ugly looking guys? Hot Guys ^.^
3. Do you get treated less for being gay? in the closet kinda sorta, eben though some people kno wat school.
4. And do you find you won't go certain places, Or wear certain things for being gay. --