Known each other for 9 years but theres a problem.

[BuBuBear]

Me and this girl, my best friend have known each other since Kindergarden. Hell, we know everything about each other. And about 4 months ago I told her I like her, an she told me she likes me too. We are even texting right know. About a month ago we were at a park playing soccer, and the sunset was going down. We both fell down and watched the sunset move down. I told her I loved her and we kissed. It was the most amazing experience I have ever had. The only problem is, we both cannot date till we are 16. That's........ 2 years! What should we do! And DO NOT say a 14 year old cannot feel love. I don't give a shit what you think, I know we will love each other for the rest of our lives. i just don't understand what to do with our dating problem. And, both of our parents and sibling all know each other, we have sleepovers all the time and nothing sexual happens, I don't give a crap about that stuff, just how much I love her. Please answer nicely and if you have a problem, don't post it.

[twinkies11]

can i ask y you can't date until you are 16? anyways if u really do love her then you will still be able to be together and wait until yall both are 16. dating behind your parents backs isn't a good option so i wouldn't suggest that. and if you are having feelings for her and don't want anything sexual to happen between yall then i suggest that you probably shouldn't have sleep overs anymore. hang out by all means but if you really want to date her then you might as well.

[BuBuBear]

We are just so comfy with each other. We can literaly sleep in the same room, wake up, wear pj's, and just hang out

[OzGirlRachael]

We are just so comfy with each other. We can literaly sleep in the same room, wake up, wear pj's, and just hang out

then theres no problem. keep doin that until u r 16

[CoolGuyXD]

Just stay in touch with one another like you have been. That way you will always be close and see what happens when you guys turn 16 or even after that.

[Human]

why can't you date?
I'm 13 and I have been able to since 12

[BuBuBear]

my parents are pretty strict.

[Thanatos]

What do you expect dating to be thats so different from what you currently do? Whether you call it "Hanging Out" or a "Stay In Date" its the exact same thing. Just different terminology.

[Cole881]

Dang dude, thats awesome! I cant help you there except keep with her. Seems like you have a nice girl. good luck bud!

[Nolf]

it seems your situation is a bit strange, both your parents know each other and yet are prohibiting you from dating until 16, yet dont mind you two sleeping in the same room. that draws red flags for most parents, this site being a good example of how horny we guys can get. i dont think you should really try to rebel against them, all romeo and juliet, but i think it should go something along those lines of perhaps disobeying. if you know you want to spend the rest of your life with her and your not exaggerating, then you have something very rare and you shouldnt let your parents' thinking that you guys being too immature to date stop you from that.

[ImCoolBeans]

You have a duplicate in Relationships and Dating, so I'll lock this one.

Here is the one: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=130640

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