Known her for 9 years but need help?

[BuBuBear]

Me and this girl, my best friend have known each other since Kindergarden. Hell, we know everything about each other. And about 4 months ago I told her I like her, an she told me she likes me too. We are even texting right know. About a month ago we were at a park playing soccer, and the sunset was going down. We both fell down and watched the sunset move down. I told her I loved her and we kissed. It was the most amazing experience I have ever had. The only problem is, we both cannot date till we are 16. That's........ 2 years! What should we do! And DO NOT say a 14 year old cannot feel love. I don't give a shit what you think, I know we will love each other for the rest of our lives. i just don't understand what to do with our dating problem. And, both of our parents and sibling all know each other, we have sleepovers all the time and nothing sexual happens, I don't give a crap about that stuff, just how much I love her. Please answer nicely and if you have a problem, don't post it.

[ImCoolBeans]

You certainly can feel love at 14 - I felt some very strong emotions at that age, myself. If you really want to be together maybe you just don't need to be official. You can be "together" but you don't have to be "dating", if you know what I mean. It sounds like you two have something very special. If you think that you should be able to date maybe you could try to persuade your parents.

[BuBuBear]

Thank you, Kate(The girl) just texted me saying I know we cannot date, but I still love you, so it will all work out fine.

[ImCoolBeans]

Love is a real powerful emotion, and it doesn't go away too easily. I really hope everything works out well for the two of you.

[BuBuBear]

Thank you. is it odd that we have never done anything sexual but kiss?

[Eclipsical]

Noone has to know what it really is...just keep the pda to nil. haha

[Mortal Coil]

It's great that you love this girl, and since you're family friends I don't see how it wouldn't be ok for you to go out with this girl "as a friend" every so often.
Hope it all goes well, and I'm sorry your parents won't let you date

[ImCoolBeans]

Thank you. is it odd that we have never done anything sexual but kiss?

I don't think that's odd at all. It shows that you are very affectionate about each other, but you don't feel the need to have sex or do things of that nature too quickly or just jump into it.

[unnamed94]

although i do believe that you can feel love at that age and that you do love her, dont be so sure that you will "love each other for the rest of our lives". not trying to tell you not go for it or anything like it with what i said. if i was in that situation and my parents knew how close we are and all, then i would just tell them im dating her or try to convince them to let me date her. thats what i would do but maybe thats not your situation. what you have with her seems really nice and special btw.

Thank you. is it odd that we have never done anything sexual but kiss?

why would it be odd? loving someone doesnt mean that you have to do sexual stuff.

[Buranri]

Why can't you date until you're 16? I mean if you're Mormon or something and it's a religious issue that's one thing. If it's just a parent's rule, perhaps see if you could talk to them since it's someone they know?