Im emotionaly abused?

[beebs]

I told friend about some stuff that happens in my household and with my family, and she said it sounds like emotional abuse. What do you guys think?

My mum and brother constentaly say nasty things, like "how funny would it be if laura was taken away by the bin men, or hit by a plane" and also when i ask my mum wear shes going she says where shes going then says because she hates talking to me, she asks me "where can i go to avoid you?" she says im dumb and simple minded. I hate it. She always sides with my brother, and says it would be awesome if bad things happend to me...

So is this emotional abuse, or just family being family?

[Anselmo]

My mum and brother constentaly say nasty things, like "how funny would it be if laura was taken away by the bin men, or hit by a plane"

They are messing with you, don't take that too personally. That's what my parents used to told me when i was 5 so i would shut up...

Maybe your mom wants to go to a specific place and don't want you to be around her asking to go somewhere else..

That is just family being family..

[Aubrie]

They are probably just kidding, but I can see where you would be upset about it. Tell them how much it hurts you when they say those things, and if they don't stop, then I would definitely classify it as emotional abuse. They are probably unaware that it upsets you.

[Mortal Coil]

I have a pretty fucked up fam myself, but it all depends on how often it happens. I say stuff like that to my bro and it's mostly just tough love, so as long as you're not feeling emotionally abused or taking it too seriously I'm not sure if it's a big problem.
Of course, if it is having a big effect on you, you should really talk to them.

[DejaVu]

When it becomes persistant like this, I don't believw they're joking. Do they say it as a joke and then laugh it off or are they serious about it?

[Breakeven]

hun some family's are just fuked up
nothing wrong with u and about emotional abuse ur not , ur might be lil hurt
but whats ur mum and bro are saying is wrong coz they dont how that affect u
maybe u should do something about it? like tell ur mum she dont have to be **** mean all the time
and whenever they say wouldnt be funny is laura hit by plan ? say wouldnt be funny if u ever learn to shut the hack up
and whenever they something just dont care , pretend like u cant hear them
ur better then them!
and they might be joking? some people really dont know how to show their love

believe me my family say much way worse stuff i just dont give a fuk about it!

[iLove Justin Bieber]

Are they being serious about it and constantly saying stuff? Also, do they ever show they love you in any way? If not, speak to me because I'd rather give you personal advise rather than post it here. I have messenger if you wan't to chat.

[kaldee1996]

that is emotional abuse u got to inform D.C.P and u may get a better family