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Can'tHelpIt
February 20th, 2012, 11:43 PM
Ok so, I have told all my close female friends I am gay. The problem is, my guy firends. B, C, and H. B is my closet friend ever and well I really am not sure how to tell him, its not that he is anti-gay its just he doesn't like the idea. C and H I'm really not sure how they would take it but they aren't the closset people so I'm mainly focused on B.
Please help?
ImCoolBeans
February 21st, 2012, 01:38 AM
If you don't think you're ready to tell them you don't need to yet. If you're as close as you say you are then he'll probably be accepting. When and if you do it, don't feel the need to make a huge deal out of it - it might freak him out a bit. Good luck with everything.
Abyssal Echo
February 21st, 2012, 02:27 AM
If you don't think you're ready to tell them you don't need to yet. If you're as close as you say you are then he'll probably be accepting. When and if you do it, don't feel the need to make a huge deal out of it - it might freak him out a bit. Good luck with everything.
on the one hand I agree with ImCoolBeans u don't have 2 tell anyone till ur ready. But since u have already told some of ur friends I feel it would b alot better if ur close friends heard the news from u rather than from someone else. just my opinion the decision yours I wish u the best in what ever choice u make.
Stronger
February 21st, 2012, 03:55 PM
Only do it if you feel its right, friend B isn't anti-gay so you should have a better time telling him, as for the other two maybe talk to them on their views and see where it goes from there. Don't rush into it and take your time, if you feel they will over-react then maybe telling them now isn't the best thing. I wish you luck.
Daracon
February 28th, 2012, 10:07 PM
Don't rush telling him, think it over a bit more, only you can decide when you want to tell him but be 100% sure you are ready! :)
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