So Confused

[person842]

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[Patuxent78]

I'm not sure where it says in the bible that you can't masturbate. I'm Roman Catholic and I'm told that I can masturbate as much as I want because there's nothing wrong with it. It's only parents and parishioners that say you can't, only because they don't want to imagine you doing it, plus, to stave off the inevitable...sex. They hope if you don't masturbate, that you won't have thoughts of sex. Except, they don't believe in science...(ie. hormones, puberty, testosterone, etc), so god forbid you have an erection...something everyone, including your Dad and pastor has had.

I say jerk off! If not, then find something else to occupy your thoughts, not sure what you expect us to say to you. You're horny, but you don't want to jerk off...so...uhm, what do you want us to do about it. Play video games, read a book, play some baseball.

Not trying to be a butthead, but this question has been asked a million times, and there is absolutely nothing we can say to you other than just jerk off.

[person842]

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[Diverperry]

If it makes you feel guilty, than don't do it. Weigh your options if the moment of gradification you get I'd worth the guilt afterwards

[twinkies11]

If you aren't comfortable with it then don't. Things you can do are exercise, play a video game, pray, hang out with friends. and masturbation falls under the law of chastity, that sexual behavior is given to us for the use between u and your spouse.

[BossHogg]

So right now, I am so confused.... I'm not sure if this is the right place to put it, but I guess I will put it here.

Anyway, I just have been really horny lately. Like extremely. I'm 14 years old and I don't jack off. Now, before you all suggest to jack off, I am Christian and I feel really guilty if I do, so I don't want to do it. Any suggestions?

Yea im a Christian too and Its DOESNT say anything about you cant masturbate or its a sin, it only says that sex is consensual between a man and his wife thats it soooo jack off releave some of that cun build up lol

[WithoutFear]

if you believe you should, do it. not what someone else believes. religon cant stop you from doing a natural bodily behaviour
as may tell im not religious

[nicnicolas1]

im sure you cant have sex then either...................... thats though

[User Does Not Exist]

There's no reason to feel guilty of masturbation. It's just proper to keep it to yourself. I almost guarantee the pastor himself does it (whether he'd admit to it or not).

I used to be Roman Catholic as well. But then I realized there were too many contradictions with science. As I got older, I also realized that most other Catholics didn't take things as literally as I did either.

[senior.2013]

Its normal to feel very horny when youre a teen. If you dont want to masturbate, dont. Keep your mind on other things. When you feel the urge just do something. Go for a walk, draw, clean your room. Get your mind off of it.