Am I Borderline Gay?

[Biscuithead13]

Ok so this is kind of ripping into me......I'm almost exclusively attracted to guys over girls physically, but do get emotional attractions to both. I'd say my physical attractions are 85-15 guys. I'm just all confused and theres some girls trying to turn me gay because they know this. Help lol :whoops:

[User_Does Not Exist]

Your just curious.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

It is possible that you are bisexual with a strong preference for the same sex; bisexuality varies a lot, some like both equally (Like myself), some prefer the opposite sex a teensy bit over the same sex--and vise versa, some really like the opposite sex and are hardly ever attracted to the same sex, but will still on the rare occasion find a same sex person who really turns their crank.

However, having followed your other threads in the past, I think a far more likely scenario is that you're gay.

To the above posters yes, deep down I think I know I'm gay too :/ I know what my prefrences are and fact is that I just like guys. The grays areas come along when it comes to me accepting myself, being just a little more open minded, and trying to get my social life in order from here on out. I find it extremely hard to accept myself as gay for some reason, I can easily accept if I was bi but being gay is like a whole other ballgame. It makes me feel all alone to be honest, again because I see these gay guys walking around my school, and they are so open about it (I overhear them and stuff) and I always wonder "If I was that way I'm not sure how I could possibly be so open about it" I always wonder that because to be honest it amazes me.

Maybe you think being bi would allow you to have a 'normal' lifestyle? Well, it wouldn't if you have a female partner and don't feel fulfilled with her. I really do you that you are gay--and I believe you know that you are too.

That said, however, don't let me or anyone else tell you what orientation you are or "turn you gay," that's just silly. Labels are unnecessary as is, you'll work things out just fine and you'll find yourself a special someone (Of which gender? Well, I think you'll know the answer better than I do), I'm positive.

[Daracon]

I think you are Bi, but hey what do I know about you? Nothing. Sometimes you have to think deep down about what you want in life and where you can see yourself in the next 10+ years. Could it be a possibility that you want to feel somewhat normal so you are inclined to be Bi? Sure. I feel that way sometimes as well and the question of my sexuality is a question I don't see being answered anytime soon. Give it time and I am sure you will find the answer you are looking for, because only you can determine your sexuality. I hope I helped in someway! Good luck! :D

[Gordo]

Ok so this is kind of ripping into me......I'm almost exclusively attracted to guys over girls physically, but do get emotional attractions to both. I'd say my physical attractions are 85-15 guys. I'm just all confused and theres some girls trying to turn me gay because they know this. Help lol :whoops:

Idk if you're borderline gay, but you're borderline awesome :yeah:with or without knowing exactly So just be. I know it's a confusing time for you/us. Choose a label if ya have to, but know that you can change it later on. Most choices we make don't have to last forever, so do what ya can with people you're comfortable with and you'll figure it out. Scary as it might be, ya might wanna discuss it with ur BFF. Not saying ya gotta come out or anything, but ya could ask if he/she thinks abt that stuff or what they do think abt. Kinda like a one on one truth or dare.


Mike

[Electra Heart]

"Turn you gay"? Well, I know one thing and that is that you should never try to force a sexuality upon someone. It is a completely self directed nature of life. As for your question... Perhaps you're just a bit confused. I consider myself bisexual and I am much more attracted to men in both mental and physical aspects, but all my life I have dated woman. I believe that sexuality isn't a choice but sometimes there are choices involved. Above all, don't try to label yourself, just have fun with what you have and make the best of it.

[Unsolvedmind]

I would say your around Bisexual

[Biscuithead13]

To be honest, more often than not I see myself as bi, with a strong preference for guys. I really dont feel I'm gay because I still can find a girl pleasurable to look at, not to mention I am capable of falling in love with either gender. I'm definitely not straight because guys are just too dang hot :P I gotta be honest there. But anyway guess its just frustrating because I have all these people trying to tell me I'm gay at school and it gets really annoying.