How to know if someone is gay?

[Jmihas]

Hello.

How to know if my friend's gay or not, I'm asking because he plays gay and flirting with me although he has a girlfriend? He makes me horny because he askes me for sex but he really dosen't. So the point is.. is he gay or not?

[senior.2013]

One way to find out is to talk to him about it. As long as you two are comfortable with each other he should be able to tell the truth. You never know until you ask. Dont be too bold though and say "Yo, dude. Im pretty sure youre homo." because that wont work. Ease into the conversation on the topic.

[Donkey]

One way to find out is to talk to him about it. As long as you two are comfortable with each other he should be able to tell the truth. You never know until you ask. Dont be too bold though and say "Yo, dude. Im pretty sure youre homo." because that wont work. Ease into the conversation on the topic.
This is pretty much it man. We don't have like a sixth toe or a marking on our torso or anything like that, there are no ways to tell really. Just gotta ask. He'll probably tell you if he wants you to know

[Rayquaza]

Hm. Tricky one. I have a friend like this. I just asked him. He told me he was bisexual. I suppose you better ask him too. You won't know if you don't ask. Only he knows himself best.

[Tonebone88]

It's hard to know for sure. A lot of guys just act gay and say stuff like that sometimes because they think its funny. That doesn't mean they are actually gay... I have a friend that is very personal and will always touch you when you're working. We're in this club together and he always pokes me, puts his hand on my leg, rubs his hand accross my back. On saturday he started leaning towards me so I scooted away from him. He kinda fel over and ended up laying on my lap. I finally just asked him what was going on (I didn't actually ask if he was gay but it was heavily implied) and he said he's just like that in general and most of the time he does it to be annoying. I think the only way to know is to talk to him about it.

[monkeydo]

Unfortunately in my experience guys will often only admit to being gay or bi once you've confided in them that you are gay/bi and they know they can trust you. Which is a risk, especially in a country like mine where its illegal! I've tried talking to guys before and they denied it and said they were just messing around, until I said I was gay... then they felt comfortable admitting to more. It's really difficult and you just have to decide how to go about things depending on the person I think, especially if you're in the closet yourself (although I don't know if you are?). If he knows you're gay, maybe he's just messing with you... or maybe he wants to experiment but is too shy/scared to say so. Again, just depends on the person and you can only figure it out by talking to him honestly.

[OhMightyLion]

It's simple. Just ask him, but be careful how/when you ask him.

[Bigjack]

You can't know without asking

[Abyssal Echo]

[QUOTE=Donkey;1622365]This is pretty much it man. We don't have like a sixth toe or a marking on our torso or anything like that, there are no ways to tell really. Just gotta ask. He'll probably tell you if he wants you to know

I agree with Donkey I'm Gay but u'd never know it 2 look at me.

so yeah if u really want 2 no just ask him

[spencer_S]

Be blunt and ASK HIM. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable if you don't want him to tease you anymore.

[rokinho]

Talk to him about it, thet's the only way to find out...

[AHSboy]

You can't know for sure unless he tells you or unless he begins feeling physically AND emotionally attached to other males.

[Whoiskevin]

you cant tell until you talk to him