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Quercus
February 20th, 2012, 07:48 AM
Ok so my ex and I'm broke up about a month ago... It was not a serious relationship at all, and things were akward. We were more like friends then bf and gf. So we decided to be just friends. And thats what we were. There was nothing weird about it after either.

Well this weekend her.best friend and I hung out, got drunk on friday, I took her out to a fancy dinner saturday night, and a movie (we watched chronicle such an epic movie!!!) Yesterday she took to meet her family and stuff.. Great! Well after spending 3 days and nights we'v grown very close. Last night before she left... We kissed... It was simply great. I havent felt that way in awhile, you know... Liking someone like that.
But im scared that if we date.. What my ex, and her best friend will think..
The way I look at it is, you only get certain chances in life to be happy... Why waste it on.being afraid?

What do you all think?

Mortal Coil
February 20th, 2012, 08:04 AM
I agree that you shouldn't be afraid. Your ex is your EX for a reason. If she's not over you that's her problem and you should be fine.
The friend seems like a great girl, I'm happy for you :)

kenoloor
February 20th, 2012, 10:05 AM
If your ex has a problem with it, that's her problem not yours. Do what makes you happy.

Quercus
February 20th, 2012, 11:23 AM
But this girl i like is my ex gf's best friend... And its actually her scared more then anything.about my ex hating her because.there best friends.

Quercus
February 20th, 2012, 09:41 PM
This girl I like and I are talking about moving in next january

unnamed94
February 21st, 2012, 01:24 AM
you should just go for it. if this girl has a problem with dating you because of your ex, then bad luck on you but dont ruin this chance you have with this girl

This girl I like and I are talking about moving in next january

this is you ex girlfriend's best friend you are talking about right?

Rage of the Menace
February 22nd, 2012, 03:59 PM
Just go for it dude. It's her problem, not yours.