FutureAFofficer
February 20th, 2012, 12:07 AM
Hi,
My name is Max(13) and I have a few problems
1) My best friend lets say his name is Ben(13) now Ben has had his parents divorced for most of his life and he has a stepfather.
His stepfather lets say his name is John died of a heart attack at the age of 36. John was more of a father than his biological father.
I have been consoling him and talking to/hanging out with ben whenever I can, I make sure he is doing all right everyday. Ben also has had a little bit of a anger issue and it is starting to come out more now (and he has every right to be angry) when he does get angry I calm him down.
My issue is, is there anything else I can do? And am I doing a good job of being a friend?
2) Recently I have noticed that nobody really likes me outside of my close group of 3 friends but I take full response ability knowing that they have a reason(s)
the first reason being that I used to have a girlfriend her name lets say is Emily. Me and emily were together for about a year and for both of us being between the ages of 12 and 13 when this relationship occurred was a big milestone.
Me and Emily did some naughty things that were totally inapropriate for someone of our age and that being BJs and handjobs. What broke us up was she in my opinion cheated on me (let three guys kiss her on the cheek, and one on the lips) now the reason doesn't sound like a big deal but what really made me angry was that she did not tell me! I had always been faithful to her.
Well why nobody likes me is because I told a few people about what me and emily did now a lot of people see me as a rumor spreading asshole. Indeed I was. A few months later I apologized to her. Needless to say she hates me and she has the right to.
A lot of people in my school seem to have a certain disdain for me.
I would like to know if you think this will eventually blow over?
3) A few months back my ankle was injured in a skateboarding accident and i think the growth plate in my ankle was crushed against the bone. That means that the bone that grows in my ankle will be stunted of growth.
I have already been to the doctors and my ankle is still hurting me on high pressure activities (running, jumping) I have complained to my doctor and parents. I will be going to physical therapy soon but physical therapy I believe just strengths whatever you are focusing on, not fixing it.
Thank you so much for reading this i know it is long and boring.
If you are a person of any religion/faith/belief I beg of you to Pray or think about my friend, a friend in need as I will later.
also if you have LGBT parents and having troubles Please message me as i have lesbian parents.
please forgive me if I have made any error as I am new to this type of website.
My name is Max(13) and I have a few problems
1) My best friend lets say his name is Ben(13) now Ben has had his parents divorced for most of his life and he has a stepfather.
His stepfather lets say his name is John died of a heart attack at the age of 36. John was more of a father than his biological father.
I have been consoling him and talking to/hanging out with ben whenever I can, I make sure he is doing all right everyday. Ben also has had a little bit of a anger issue and it is starting to come out more now (and he has every right to be angry) when he does get angry I calm him down.
My issue is, is there anything else I can do? And am I doing a good job of being a friend?
2) Recently I have noticed that nobody really likes me outside of my close group of 3 friends but I take full response ability knowing that they have a reason(s)
the first reason being that I used to have a girlfriend her name lets say is Emily. Me and emily were together for about a year and for both of us being between the ages of 12 and 13 when this relationship occurred was a big milestone.
Me and Emily did some naughty things that were totally inapropriate for someone of our age and that being BJs and handjobs. What broke us up was she in my opinion cheated on me (let three guys kiss her on the cheek, and one on the lips) now the reason doesn't sound like a big deal but what really made me angry was that she did not tell me! I had always been faithful to her.
Well why nobody likes me is because I told a few people about what me and emily did now a lot of people see me as a rumor spreading asshole. Indeed I was. A few months later I apologized to her. Needless to say she hates me and she has the right to.
A lot of people in my school seem to have a certain disdain for me.
I would like to know if you think this will eventually blow over?
3) A few months back my ankle was injured in a skateboarding accident and i think the growth plate in my ankle was crushed against the bone. That means that the bone that grows in my ankle will be stunted of growth.
I have already been to the doctors and my ankle is still hurting me on high pressure activities (running, jumping) I have complained to my doctor and parents. I will be going to physical therapy soon but physical therapy I believe just strengths whatever you are focusing on, not fixing it.
Thank you so much for reading this i know it is long and boring.
If you are a person of any religion/faith/belief I beg of you to Pray or think about my friend, a friend in need as I will later.
also if you have LGBT parents and having troubles Please message me as i have lesbian parents.
please forgive me if I have made any error as I am new to this type of website.