just want sex?

[fitzman16]

Hey im 16 and ive had sex b4 with my ex, and we did the other day but didnt go quite well if u read my last post. It eventually went in. Anyway we we being sexual and after I came and while we weren't engaged in intercourse (penetration) she rly wanted to cuddle and kiss. Which I don't have a prob kissing, but all she likes to do is cuddle and I hate it. All I rly want to do is just have sex, and do everything sexual related (1st, 2nd, and 3rd base). Is there anything wrong wit me if I just want sex and not the cuddling and talking aspect of it? Or am I a normal 16 y/r guy?

[Bubbawhack]

No there is nothing wrong to just want sex, but you do have to be considerate of what other people want, and may have to compromise with what they want, and meet them half way.

[BossHogg]

Nahhh your just a guy we all just want to hit it

Don't give tips, stop posting in orange. ~ ImCoolBeans

[ImCoolBeans]

If this turns into a "how can I have sex with her" thread, it will be locked immediately.

BossHogg, do not give tips on how he can get to have sex with her, it is against the rules - if you had read them you would have known that for yourself. Also Stop posting in orange, it's incredibly annoying and makes moderating just that much more difficult because I have to cope with my eyes bleeding everywhere I see it.

[unnamed94]

just dont make her think you want the same thing she wants if it isnt true. you can probably find a girl that just wants to have sex. you are 16 and a lot of guys at that age are like that, so you are normal.

[Mortal Coil]

You're just being a bloke, but try to be a bit more considerate towards her than you sound :)

[kenoloor]

Oxytocin is the chemical in the brain responsible for people wanting to cuddle. It is released after things like orgasm, childbirth, breastfeeding, etc. Everyone has it and everyone is affected by it. However, testosterone functions as an oxytocin inhibitor and estrogen acts as an oxytocin enhancer. So I daresay that yes, you are a "normal" 16-year-old boy.

[Auzzie 94]

Nothing wrong with just wanting the sex and not wanting the cuddling, but in saying that you should REALLY consider what she wants too. Talk to her about it.. that's your best option bro. I'm sexually active and I have alot of sexual partners.. some of them want the sex to be more "passionate" than just like casual sex.. they want passionate kissing.. a good mood/setting etc.. always consider a woman's needs and what a woman wants.

[mase]

Your a normal lad! aha, but yer its just being abit selfish really, You want sex which sounds as if shes fine with but she likes to be close to you and cuddle and crap.