I didn't know I could hate someone so much.

[Rache. xx.]

So I had these really close, 3 best friends. Charotte and grace (Twins) and Milly. First of all try and imagine what its like to be best friends with Twins, they're moody, annoying and ALWAYS have eachothers backs. Milly and I had never really liked the twins, they're not exactly the nicest of people. But they thought we were 'bff's'. One day The twins (mainly Charlotte) were saying some horrible stuff, so milly and I decided we shouldn't be friends with them anymore. And i told them this, they blew it all out of proportion and went to our head of year at school, I took all the wrap for it so Milly would'nt get into trouble. But a few months later, out of the blue, Milly left me for them. All I got was an inbox from charlotte saying 'The 3 of us we're always supossed to be best friends, so leave us alone, we hate you'. After this I really did hit rock bottom, no body knows what I went through for all 6 weeks of the summer holiday, I was in a bad place. And I have slowly built myself up and learned how to trust new better friends. But I don't think I can deal with the constant bitching I get from the other 3. I hate them all so much, they are always talking about me and posting stuff about me onto eachothers walls for me to see, I hate it I hate them. I really want to go and smack them, please help me.:(

[Desuetude]

Right, firstly im just going to say if you hated the twins so much you shouldn't have stayed friends with them in the first place, it was always going to end in tears because you can't stay friends with someone you hate. Second it's not very nice to be told to your face to by a supposedly "best friend" that try don't want to be friends anymore. Just think how they must have been feeling. But I guess you can because you've had it done to you. Im not really into all this karma crap but you could look at it like that.
Im guessing that you're in your early teens, I used to have these little spats with my "friends" in year 6. We were a group of 8 and every day at least 2 of us would be fighting. When I moved up to secondary school I made a new group of friends and I can honestly say that in 3 years we have hardly fall out, sure youll get arguments every now and then but nothing big. The people I used to call friends moved onto becoming bithes and joined in making fun of me, people change, I new them for 4 years and now I never talk to them. What im getting at is when you're younger you tend to acquire new tastes to lot of things and that includes friends. As you grow up you lose and gain friends and that's fine, it's part of growing up, you just have to try and find people that you know you can trust, that are there for you, that don't put.you down and that you like. You can't expect perfect but you can find better than those girls you used to hang out with, they're not worth it, learn from your mistakes.
If you dont want to look at the messages, block them, they won't come up on.your news feed and you can always unblock them, you have the choice. I know it's hard in the sumer but it was just that once, like you've said you've built yourself back up, surround yourself by good, friendly people. Those other 3 cant hurt you. You have new friends, they're not even part of your life now just ignore them. Things will start to get better now, you just wait and see. :-)

[Rache. xx.]

It was kind of hard not to stay friends with them, they are very intimidating people. And tbh I thought Milly was my BESTfriend. But thanks anyway.

[DarkHorses]

Regardless of what you should have and should have not done, there's really nothing you can do to fix that now. To me it sounds like none of these people were very good friends. You're going to have to face problems like this for the rest of your life. People aren't always who you think they are, and as a result you end up getting hurt. But look at it this way; it's better that you found out the truth about them rather than remaining good friends with a bunch of losers. You've probably learned a lot from this, and you can channel what you've learned into making better friends who won't put you through what these people did.

As far as them still harassing you, I think your best option is to ignore them. I don't know if you've been saying anything back to them or been involved in the things they are saying, but it would probably be a good idea just to ignore them. Block them from your facebook so you don't have to see their posts. They deleted you from their lives, so why not do the same to them? You don't deserve the treatment they're giving you, and you shouldn't have to put up with it. You have new friends, and your focus should be on them now.

Good luck with everything, I hope things improve soon.

[TeddyBearRock]

I had a best friend who I really hate now, She would do anything to be liked, here are a feww things thats she did;

One day this boy came over to me and said to leave his gf alone, I was like "What?" I dont ever like her let alone hang out with her, so he went off and i say to her "God i hate him so much!" My fiend goes off and the boy comes back with and shes a few steps behind him. He was like " Why do you hate me" i didnt say anything and he goes off, i turnerd to look at her and she goes " I dont know how he knew that you said that!" (prety oblvious she told him)

She always went behind my back, i asked her if she wanted to hang out she said "nope im at my nans!" So i went out to meet the people who were out. on the way i saw her with out with 'the populars' she saw me and ran off. The next day i saw her at shool and she says "can i come round after school coz i didnt hang out the other day!" i was like "what, you know i saw you yestarday. and you still lie about it. and no you cant"

I'm glad thats over i havent sspoke to her in 2 years,
Anyway if you want to talk. message me