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Dimitri
February 18th, 2012, 12:56 AM
I see so many stories in here that are about how you hate or blah blah blah so i thought I needed to post something a little different....



Tonight was fun, i went to the musical, Evil Dead. Yes, the musical was amazing and so fucking comical, i don't think I have head the word so many times in one night since I graduated from high school....but it was what he did after wards that i love him for.

He asked me to buy him cigarettes and I did, he is old enough and so am I. As I handed them to him I looked at him and told him that I did not approve of them, he said whatever and once we got out to the car I told him, I did not care, he only did it every once in a while and I was fine with him screwing with his body just as long as he does not screw with mine or smoke in my car. he agreed....

But, while in my car driving I noticed my back window go down, and then out of my mirror I saw the green box fly, he threw them out the window of my car, he threw them out.

I whipped around and asked him what the hell he was doing throwing them out my car. He responded, I hated how they made you feel, how they made me feel for smoking them. He told em the only reason he smoked was because he need an escape because he (I don't need to elaborate but it was needed to cover this whole story.)

He told me that as long as he had me there was no reason for these in his life, he gave them up for me, no other reason he told me. I love him so much.

I thought I needed to share....

monkeydo
February 18th, 2012, 09:58 AM
That's pretty cool. I smoke and I can't see myself doing that for anyone, so I think its quite a big thing if he can do that for you.

obvious
February 19th, 2012, 03:17 AM
I'm the same, i smoke and couldn't see myself giving it up that easy...

Desuetude
February 19th, 2012, 03:25 AM
Awhh that's so cute. It's great that you're able to help him so much!

Mortal Coil
February 19th, 2012, 03:30 AM
:3
It's great that he did that for you, I quit smoking for my (now ex-) boyfriend who I still love very much.
I'm sorry about what he went through, whatever that may be. Needing an escape is never good.
You are in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful man. I'm happy for you :)

Dimitri
February 19th, 2012, 08:38 AM
Awhh that's so cute. It's great that you're able to help him so much!

To be honest I didn't try to help him....

He knew I didn't like it but he did it all on his own, i told him I didn't care if he smoked just not in my car and I told him I wouldn't kiss him for a minimum of two hours after he head a cig....he did it for me ann on him own.

Desuetude
February 19th, 2012, 08:53 AM
To be honest I didn't try to help him....

He knew I didn't like it but he did it all on his own, i told him I didn't care if he smoked just not in my car and I told him I wouldn't kiss him for a minimum of two hours after he head a cig....he did it for me ann on him own.

Ok so it was your influence on him that did it, you get my point :)

prob1996
February 19th, 2012, 09:33 AM
Thanks for sharing!!! It is an amazing what influence you can have on someone and not even realize it!

TeddyBearRock
February 19th, 2012, 11:46 AM
Are you sure he has quit. i dont want to troll or upset anyone but i dont think its that easy and he may still smoke but when your not there, just say to him that "i dont want you to feel that you have to stop for me, if you want you can still smoke." Hope i havent upset anyone.

Dimitri
February 19th, 2012, 12:50 PM
Are you sure he has quit. i dont want to troll or upset anyone but i dont think its that easy and he may still smoke but when your not there, just say to him that "i dont want you to feel that you have to stop for me, if you want you can still smoke." Hope i havent upset anyone.
Believe me hun, you have every right to say what you said but I have had this conversation with him about smoking, I told him I was fine with it as long as he didn't smoke in my house or my car....

He has started chewing gum like crazy though.... at least I know what I can get when when I randomly buy him things....He hates it when I do that but I don't care, i like to spoil my boyfriend :yeah: